Singles bar

[April]

What'll it be, babe?

Jack and Cherry Coke pleeze... with lot's of cherries.

Nice tighty you got on there...

I don't wear that tighty when sleeping.

Oh, and I love cherry, too.

Cherry be mah fave flave...

 

[Statistikhengst]

Jack and Cherry Coke pleeze... with lot's of cherries.

Nice tighty you got on there...

I don't wear that tighty when sleeping.

Oh, and I love cherry, too.

Cherry be mah fave flave...

 

[BDBoop]

Obviously I won't be posting here anymore.

Thanks, John. You're a real peach.

 

[JohnL.Burke]

Obviously I won't be posting here anymore.

Thanks, John. You're a real peach.

Sorry you feel that way.

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Yepp. I have frankly given up all hope of ever trusting a woman again. Cosi fan tutte.

I've given up on men. (I'm female, in case you didn't know.) I have yet to meet one that hasn't lied to or tried to deceive me.

Oh, look - we both reside in the same awesome town! LOL!

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Losing your life-partner, whether you were married or not is one of the most devastating humiliations you will ever face.

It's natures way of saying that you weren't good enough; that you needed to be replaced by a younger or better looking suitor.

Compound that by the fact that you probably did it to yourself by being a selfish prick and voilà! Just another slap in the face to remind you that you failed ... and what's worse ... that you lost.

Look at it this way, though - out of all the people that tried to take her hand, she fancied your's above all others ~

I know, that doesn't help either.

Just eat another ring-ding and fall asleep on the couch ... yet again....

 

[Ava]

Losing your life-partner, whether you were married or not is one of the most devastating humiliations you will ever face.

Yes, it is if your truly loved that person, though for myself, I wouldn't call it humiliation, more of a sorrowful tragedy. You not only lose your mate, you lose your history, your identity, mutual friends, often family, plans, dreams, and all those years you held in there trying everything you could think of to make it work while not losing your sense of self, or your soul, in the process

You notice the loss the first time you go grocery shopping for one.....

 

[WelfareQueen]

Cabbie and Aqua,


I like you both. You are good people. I can't comment on what happened in either of your relationship situations because I wasn't there, but it does not change who you are. I will have been married 20 years in February. We have definitely had our ups and downs. At times we have both made mistakes; I know I have at least.


I think it is extremely rare that any situation is 100% one person's fault. Whatever emotions still exist, I think the tendency is to beat yourself up. Please don't. Take honest responsibility for what is truly yours and let the rest go. Forgiveness can be real difficult in these type of situations...sometimes forgiving yourself can be the hardest of all.

Now on that note...let's have a drink. I'm buying.

 

[Ava]

Cabbie and Aqua,


I like you both. You are good people. I can't comment on what happened in either of your relationship situations because I wasn't there, but it does not change who you are. I will have been married 20 years in February. We have definitely had our ups and downs. At times we have both made mistakes; I know I have at least.


I think it is extremely rare that any situation is 100% one person's fault. Whatever emotions still exist, I think the tendency is to beat yourself up. Please don't. Take honest responsibility for what is truly yours and let the rest go. Forgiveness can be real difficult in these type of situations...sometimes forgiving yourself can be the hardest of all.

Now on that note...let's have a drink. I'm buying.

Lol....well sweetheart, I wasn't assigning fault to anybody. Paths go off in different directions and I prefer to stay on the one I started out on. I am not a candidate for a permanent position in anyone's life. I am a free-spirit and can be the best I can be, when I am not cohabiting with a man. I have liked and loved all my men but there was only one that I am grateful to have known and been with, and grateful that it was over, with no regrets ever. Our paths changed and one of us had to go along to get along, and I have never done that well, if at all. I have never beaten up on myself...are you KIDDING?!?!?!!?!?

Some of us are just not meant to be in a marriage. It requires too much maturity, and that involves constraints. ***shudder***

I lke being in like, better than being in love.

You will never have run across someone like me, who has had the best life has to offer and one reason is that I follow my dreams and make my own way. I am too much for any one man. I was told that by others for years, and didn't believe it but do now. lol

All is well. All is very well. I have designed my life and will continue to do so, and that involves one pretty good guy, infrequently....just the way I like it.

 

[WelfareQueen]

Cabbie and Aqua,


I like you both. You are good people. I can't comment on what happened in either of your relationship situations because I wasn't there, but it does not change who you are. I will have been married 20 years in February. We have definitely had our ups and downs. At times we have both made mistakes; I know I have at least.


I think it is extremely rare that any situation is 100% one person's fault. Whatever emotions still exist, I think the tendency is to beat yourself up. Please don't. Take honest responsibility for what is truly yours and let the rest go. Forgiveness can be real difficult in these type of situations...sometimes forgiving yourself can be the hardest of all.

Now on that note...let's have a drink. I'm buying.

Lol....well sweetheart, I wasn't assigning fault to anybody. Paths go off in different directions and I prefer to stay on the one I started out on. I am not a candidate for a permanent position in anyone's life. I am a free-spirit and can be the best I can be, when I am not cohabiting with a man. I have liked and loved all my men but there was only one that I am grateful to have known and been with, and grateful that it was over, with no regrets ever. Our paths changed and one of us had to go along to get along, and I have never done that well, if at all. I have never beaten up on myself...are you KIDDING?!?!?!!?!?

Some of us are just not meant to be in a marriage. It requires too much maturity, and that involves constraints. ***shudder***

I lke being in like, better than being in love.

You will never have run across someone like me, who has had the best life has to offer and one reason is that I follow my dreams and make my own way. I am too much for any one man. I was told that by others for years, and didn't believe it but do now. lol

All is well. All is very well. I have designed my life and will continue to do so, and that involves one pretty good guy, infrequently....just the way I like it.

Sounds good. I am about as non-judgmental as it gets. As long as it works for you it's all that matters. I'm still buying the drinks though.

 

[Ava]

Cabbie and Aqua,


I like you both. You are good people. I can't comment on what happened in either of your relationship situations because I wasn't there, but it does not change who you are. I will have been married 20 years in February. We have definitely had our ups and downs. At times we have both made mistakes; I know I have at least.


I think it is extremely rare that any situation is 100% one person's fault. Whatever emotions still exist, I think the tendency is to beat yourself up. Please don't. Take honest responsibility for what is truly yours and let the rest go. Forgiveness can be real difficult in these type of situations...sometimes forgiving yourself can be the hardest of all.

Now on that note...let's have a drink. I'm buying.

Lol....well sweetheart, I wasn't assigning fault to anybody. Paths go off in different directions and I prefer to stay on the one I started out on. I am not a candidate for a permanent position in anyone's life. I am a free-spirit and can be the best I can be, when I am not cohabiting with a man. I have liked and loved all my men but there was only one that I am grateful to have known and been with, and grateful that it was over, with no regrets ever. Our paths changed and one of us had to go along to get along, and I have never done that well, if at all. I have never beaten up on myself...are you KIDDING?!?!?!!?!?

Some of us are just not meant to be in a marriage. It requires too much maturity, and that involves constraints. ***shudder***

I lke being in like, better than being in love.

You will never have run across someone like me, who has had the best life has to offer and one reason is that I follow my dreams and make my own way. I am too much for any one man. I was told that by others for years, and didn't believe it but do now. lol

All is well. All is very well. I have designed my life and will continue to do so, and that involves one pretty good guy, infrequently....just the way I like it.

Sounds good. I am about as non-judgmental as it gets. As long as it works for you it's all that matters. I'm still buying the drinks though.

Right! No blame, no fault, and no victims. It always takes two.

And now for that drink you have so graciously offered ........one spicy Bloody Mary please, and thank you.

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Sounds good. I am about as non-judgmental as it gets. As long as it works for you it's all that matters. I'm still buying the drinks though.

I'll take a tall Jack and Coke double, please! Make it three!

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Right! No blame, no fault, and no victims. It always takes two.

And now for that drink you have so graciously offered ........one spicy Bloody Mary please, and thank you.

You should buy ME a drink, aside from being the new kid - I'm also "fresh meat" at the singles bar! LOL!

 

[Ava]

Right! No blame, no fault, and no victims. It always takes two.

And now for that drink you have so graciously offered ........one spicy Bloody Mary please, and thank you.

You should buy ME a drink, aside from being the new kid - I'm also "fresh meat" at the singles bar! LOL!

I'm not interested in either, but thanks for the offering...

`Sides the kind of men I am interested in, wouldn't accept me buying them a drink.... Not that I would offer...lol

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Right! No blame, no fault, and no victims. It always takes two.

And now for that drink you have so graciously offered ........one spicy Bloody Mary please, and thank you.

You should buy ME a drink, aside from being the new kid - I'm also "fresh meat" at the singles bar! LOL!

I'm not interested in either, but thanks for the offering...

`Sides the kind of men I am interested in, wouldn't accept me buying them a drink....

Let me get this straight - if I spend NO MONEY on a FAKE drink ... I have a shot?



Bartender - drinks for the house!


To all my friends!!!

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Anybody got any fake wings? I'm starving!!!

 

[April]

[MENTION=45886]Mad_Cabbie[/MENTION]

here ya go...

Thanks for the free drinks!

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

[MENTION=45886]Mad_Cabbie[/MENTION]

here ya go...

I would say thank you, but I'm a self-centered prick with an attitude and a chip on his shoulder from too many on-line ass-whippings.

(stuffs face)

 

[Mad_Cabbie]

Mad Cabbie is trashed.

(ponders whether to get into fist-fight or hit on sexy lady who bought him wings ... opts instead for nap)

 

[Statistikhengst]

Mad Cabbie is trashed.

(ponders whether to get into fist-fight or hit on sexy lady who bought him wings ... opts instead for nap)

I am thinking that in that position, getting laid is going to be a very difficult task for you.