I have touched on this topic before but I left out Most important reason:
the Cross... and "the cross"
One is the Cross of Christ, the "smaller" is our own individual crosses that He told us to carry.
The thing is, just like Christ's Cross, our own cross gets heavier as time goes by. The longer you live in this godawful world, the more difficult it is to follow Christ (and maybe you weren't following Him too well in the first place... sigh)
So yeh, it is human nature (we are all guilty of this) to want to live well in the world. That's likely why most people despise the homeless, the street people. They can't imagine living like that and automatically think they must be insane and/or on drugs... etc.. Well, I won't digress any further on that topic but the point is that we all want to live well... have a nice home, 1 or more cars, preferably 20... Most people hate deprivations and etc...
But God seems to be saying: No, you Christians are going to.. not be treated so well in this life and I am not going to deliver you from your crosses or not all of them anyway.. at least not immediately. Heaven is where all misery ends, not this... godawful place called Earth
I've seen it quoted on internet sites that Augustine said that the same fire that tortures the damned purifies the elect. Supposedly he meant by this that the fires of Purgatory and Hell are the sa...
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