Memories would be a present moment representation of a past event that no longer exists. The idea behind Presentism is just that the moment in time you are experiencing is all that there is, once a moment passes, it’s gone from existence, the next moment ahead of you has t been created yet, you only live from moment to moment…something like that.
as to question 2, everything matters because while the future hasn’t been written, you plan for things you hope will happen, but until they happen…they are not yet in existence.
The idea that a your future already exists is kind of a perplexing one. If it were set already, then it’s both scary and beautiful at the same time. Scary in that there’s nothing you can do to change it and you are just on a ride that has is headed to a determined end, but also beautiful in that every mistake you’ve ever made was one that you could not have prevented, because it was pre determined that you would do it (this actually gets more into biblical predestination, but it kinda ties into Presentism).
Also, if the future already exists, then wouldn’t it mean that it already happened, actually making it your past? There are those who believe the past, present, and future exist simultaneously.
I don’t really drink but, this is just one of of those topics that interests me. Not saying I believe it, because i don’t know, but it is one that has an interesting theory behind it, just from a purely thought experiment point of view.