A fetus is not a child. I think people would listen to your arguments more if you cut out the spin and worn out twisted logic.
I guess though, that's all you have. Sad.
Just because you give it a new label doesn't change the facts.
Have you ever heard anyone woman say "My fetus just kicked"
Have you ever asked a pregnant colleague "When is your fetus due"
In the womb a baby has:
a heartbeat, just like you
hands and feet, just like you
it feels pain, just like you
it has brain activity, just like....well, it has brain activity.*
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A little humour there
, don't take it personally, I couldn't resist