how is desiring for you to learn attacking you?
If we use that logic then a bunch of teachers who want their students to learn are in reality attacking them.
And yes, wanting people to be better than they currently are is love.
It comes off as extremely arrogant, which can certainly be interpreted as an attack. It would be like me, as an atheist, telling you that I hope you learn one of these days to abandon your silly superstition and embrace the truth. I just want you to be better than you currently are, so isn't that love?
Hopefully that explains to you why having a preachy, know-it-all, holier than thou attitude isn't exactly the best approach to changing hearts and minds.
So what would you suggest would be the appropriate way to change minds and hearts if you can't tell them the truth without being offended?
The truth is the truth. It doesn't change because we accept it or not. Wanting people to learn that so they can grow and become better people is arrogant?
Maybe I'm naive then. Because i generally think that if you want people to be better, that's a good thing. I'm not going to get upset if you wish id leave my faith. you are wrong about it making me better but the fact that you care about me would be more important.
When you experience the Holy Spirit, you can't help but want to share the Gospel with everyone. You want them to feel the joy and love you feel from God. You want them to be blessed. You can't simply be content to bless yourself and your family. You want your friends and even your enemies to be blessed. It's just not possibly to feel that power and not want to share it.
Maybe I need more tact, though I sincerely am disappointed that I haven't gained it by now.
Im sorry if i came across as attacking or arrogant. That wasnt my intention. Clearly i still have more to learn.