Obesity is NOT beautiful! :(

[Esmeralda]

I am going to illustrate to you one of my points. I'm putting you on ignore. I won't try to explain anything else to you; it's pointless.

 

[ChrisL]

I am going to illustrate to you one of my points. I'm putting you on ignore. I won't try to explain anything else to you; it's pointless.

Because I just totally pointed out how contradictory you are.

 

[ChrisL]

Good grief, you try to talk to people like adults, and this is what you get. Fucking crazy is all I can say.

 

[ChrisL]

Anyways, my points and the facts I posted all still stand, as well as the fact that most people do NOT find obesity to be an attractive or desirable physical attribute. That is just the honest to goodness truth and not directed at any one person in particular. If that is how you want to take, then that is not my problem. You should go on a diet and an exercise regimen and lose weight because the facts are that most of the time, this obesity epidemic is COMPLETELY preventable.

 

[Asclepias]

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

 

[Asclepias]

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

 

[ChrisL]

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

You are wrong. I make general observations and give my opinion. I am not personally attacking any particular person.

 

[ChrisL]

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

 

[ChrisL]

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

YOU have said that you find certain types of body styles unattractive. Should I take all of your comments about "thin" people personally and be hurt?

 

[ChrisL]

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

YOU have said that you find certain types of body styles unattractive. Should I take all of your comments about "thin" people personally and be hurt?

Well?? You post pictures of those you find attractive and you certainly comment on what you find unattractive when it comes to women and their bodies. Does that make you the cause of maybe some people having low esteem?

 

[Asclepias]

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

Because the article in your OP nor your title have anything to do with the cost of obesity. I am saying people that have the same irrational opinion you have that someone should not feel good about their self image if they are obese is a problem.

 

[ChrisL]

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

Because the article in your OP nor your title have anything to do with the cost of obesity. I am saying people that have the same irrational opinion you have that someone should not feel good about their self image if they are obese is a problem.

What does that have to do with anything? I have posted the costs of obesity. I do find it unattractive.

You don't have any problems stating that you find certain bodies or people to be unattractive. Why is it okay for you to say what you find unattractive and not me?

 

[ChrisL]

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

Because the article in your OP nor your title have anything to do with the cost of obesity. I am saying people that have the same irrational opinion you have that someone should not feel good about their self image if they are obese is a problem.

And you say that thin girls should consider themselves "pre teen boys with breasts." Correct?

 

[Asclepias]

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

YOU have said that you find certain types of body styles unattractive. Should I take all of your comments about "thin" people personally and be hurt?

I never claimed that my personal tastes should be what everyone follows but the point is taken.

 

[Asclepias]

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

Because the article in your OP nor your title have anything to do with the cost of obesity. I am saying people that have the same irrational opinion you have that someone should not feel good about their self image if they are obese is a problem.

And you say that thin girls should consider themselves "pre teen boys with breasts." Correct?

No. I never said that.

 

[ChrisL]

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

YOU have said that you find certain types of body styles unattractive. Should I take all of your comments about "thin" people personally and be hurt?

I never claimed that my personal tastes should be what everyone follows but the point is taken.

And neither have I. I simply stated the facts and included my opinion on obese people. It was not directed at anyone in particular. Just a general observation on my part.

 

[ChrisL]

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

Because the article in your OP nor your title have anything to do with the cost of obesity. I am saying people that have the same irrational opinion you have that someone should not feel good about their self image if they are obese is a problem.

And you say that thin girls should consider themselves "pre teen boys with breasts." Correct?

No. I never said that.

Oh? What did you say exactly? Shall I go retrieve the post? Are you going to try playing semantics now and implying that your comments are somehow more "acceptable" than mine?

 

[Asclepias]

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

That wasnt advise. It was a statement of an observation. I never claimed you bullied anyone or post threads about your personal life.

Well then what ARE you saying? Why are you so caught up in my personal opinion about obese people instead of the actual problems that they are causing?

Because the article in your OP nor your title have anything to do with the cost of obesity. I am saying people that have the same irrational opinion you have that someone should not feel good about their self image if they are obese is a problem.

What does that have to do with anything? I have posted the costs of obesity. I do find it unattractive.

You don't have any problems stating that you find certain bodies or people to be unattractive. Why is it okay for you to say what you find unattractive and not me?

Its not a problem that you find it unattractive. The problem comes in when you insist someone feel bad about it instead of having a positive self image.

 

[Asclepias]

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

I never accused you of being a bully. I said people "like you", people that feel it necessary to say someone is unattractive are the types of people that cause low self esteem. I didnt take it personally. Its just an observation.

YOU have said that you find certain types of body styles unattractive. Should I take all of your comments about "thin" people personally and be hurt?

I never claimed that my personal tastes should be what everyone follows but the point is taken.

And neither have I. I simply stated the facts and included my opinion on obese people. It was not directed at anyone in particular. Just a general observation on my part.

No. You said that people should not accept their body type or something to that effect. Do I need to post it for you?

 

[ChrisL]

Its not at all attractive for a grown woman to look like preteen male with boobs. A big butt stores excess fat and nutrition for child bearing and protects me from hip bone injuries.

Okay. What did you say here again? You expressed your personal opinion on what you find attractive. Should a thin woman feel slighted by this comment?