Obesity is NOT beautiful! :(

[ChrisL]

Let's just put it this way. Men are not a problem for me. I've always been able to get any man I've wanted. Never had a problem in that area.

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

 

[ChrisL]

I disagree. You should not feel "good" about being overweight and unhealthy. That isn't helping anyone. It is totally unproductive. This is a REAL problem when 1 in three children are obese and many are suffering from obesity-related illnesses. That is unacceptable, whether or not it hurts someone's feelings is really NOT what is most important.

You claimed you were in the medical field. Tell me what is one of if not the most important things in a patients recovery from anything? I'll answer that for you. Attitude.

I don't work with patients. I type legal medical documents, from admissions, histories and physicals, operative notes, clinic notes, discharge summaries, letters, etc., etc.

No wonder you have no clue about self image. You are removed from the humanity of the medical field.

Not really. I get to know a patient's entire history.

By reading notes or talking to them and their family about how they feel and how they got to the point they are at?

Look, you can either get all emotional about it, or you can accept that obesity is a REAL problem we are facing here in America. We are raising a generation of sick kids because of it. I'm sorry, but I see no need to get all weepy over a person who stuffs their face with junk food and refuses to get any exercise, and like it or not, those are the people who make up a LARGE portion of our obese people. Just look at the children! These kids aren't sick. There is nothing wrong with them. They are being raised by people who are also obese in a lot of cases and passing on their unhealthy habits to their children, and their kids are sick because of it!

 

[ChrisL]

Let's just put it this way. Men are not a problem for me. I've always been able to get any man I've wanted. Never had a problem in that area.

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

Hmm. I don't think that thinking I'm a smart and attractive woman indicates a low self esteem, so I have to disagree with that statement as well. This troll has been making some VERY disgusting, very personal remarks. You are suggesting that I take that kind of treatment from some strange man on the internet.

 

[Esmeralda]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

 

[ChrisL]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

No. I asked very nicely several times for people to focus on the topic of discussion, and they refused. I can go get those posts. Did you read them? I'm sorry if you want me to lie down and take those kinds of personal attacks, but it's not going to happen that way. Do you usually blame the victim?

 

[ChrisL]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

Also, nice signature.

 

[Esmeralda]

Let's just put it this way. Men are not a problem for me. I've always been able to get any man I've wanted. Never had a problem in that area.

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

Hmm. I don't think that thinking I'm a smart and attractive woman indicates a low self esteem, so I have to disagree with that statement as well. This troll has been making some VERY disgusting, very personal remarks. You are suggesting that I take that kind of treatment from some strange man on the internet.

When you feel compelled to tell people you are smart and attractive, that indicates low self esteem. You said you took psychology courses: go back and review--it's common knowledge. You have been making very disgusting personal remarks toward him. Tit for tat. That is not a healthy way to deal with someone you don't like or who bothers you. I am suggesting that if you didn't respond, he would stop doing it. That also is in the psychology books.

 

[Esmeralda]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

No. I asked very nicely several times for people to focus on the topic of discussion, and they refused. I can go get those posts. Did you read them? I'm sorry if you want me to lie down and take those kinds of personal attacks, but it's not going to happen that way. Do you usually blame the victim?

You are not a victim here; you are definitely not a victim.

 

[Asclepias]

Then dont get upset when people are "MUCH more interested" in your opinion. Your argument is lost in the mess of your opinion, your title, and supporting article. Get it together woman.

I'm sorry, but my opinion is not costing us billions of dollars. I am just a woman on a message board making a point. If you want to take it so personally, I'm sorry but that is really not the important issue here.

Youre the only one taking it personally. I'm actually laughing at you. No one said your opinion is costing us billions of dollars. However you and others with the same opinion are responsible for people with low self esteem. How much do you think that costs us?

I am not responsible for people's low self esteem. People have low esteem because they don't feel good about themselves. That doesn't have anything to do with me. I don't go out of my way to be intentionally cruel when I see a fat person. However, this is a message board where we are encouraged to share our opinions, and that is what I'm doing.

People like you cause others that dont fight back to have low self esteem. Its an ugliness that obscures whatever physical beauty you may actually have.

People like me? I'm merely stating that I don't find obesity attractive. I'm sure there are many people who are MUCH more cruel. I'm just being honest.

I thought you were stating being obese was unhealthy and costing us billions. Which one is it?

 

[ChrisL]

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

Hmm. I don't think that thinking I'm a smart and attractive woman indicates a low self esteem, so I have to disagree with that statement as well. This troll has been making some VERY disgusting, very personal remarks. You are suggesting that I take that kind of treatment from some strange man on the internet.

When you feel compelled to tell people you are smart and attractive, that indicates low self esteem. You said you took psychology courses: go back and review--it's common knowledge. You have been making very disgusting personal remarks toward him. Tit for tat. That is not a healthy way to deal with someone you don't like or who bothers you. I am suggesting that if you didn't respond, he would stop doing it. That also is in the psychology books.

I disagree again. I AM smart and attractive. I am defending myself against his unwarranted and highly personal attacks about my life.

 

[Esmeralda]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

Also, nice signature.

The signature is satire, meant to be funny.

 

[ChrisL]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

No. I asked very nicely several times for people to focus on the topic of discussion, and they refused. I can go get those posts. Did you read them? I'm sorry if you want me to lie down and take those kinds of personal attacks, but it's not going to happen that way. Do you usually blame the victim?

You are not a victim here; you are definitely not a victim.

Yes, I am. I don't even know this person. He has admitted to singling me out for abuse and has admitted to being the "sock" of another poster. My friends are actually concerned about my well being, that is how strange it is. This person has an obsessive hatred for me and I have no idea who "he" is.

 

[ChrisL]

And one more thing, I haven't done anything to any of you weirdos that you don't do on a frequent and REGULAR basis around here. If my posts bother you, I suggest you put me on ignore. Stalking me just makes YOU look strange and like you have problems and solves nothing. You aren't going to "run me out of town" Lol. Get a grip on yourselves. If you hate me because I have self esteem, think I'm smart and attractive, then I'm very sorry about that. Really, I am. Very, very sorry.

again with telling other people not to post?

perhaps you should think about how what you post looks to others.

now, stop whining if you can't handle the responses you get and you might want to re-evaluate who the weirdo is on this thread.

That "person" has done nothing but call me filthy names and make filthy suggestions about my personal life.

The signature is satire, meant to be funny.
You are the one making this thread about you. And you are calling him filthy names too. If you want it to stop, you need to stop.

Also, nice signature.

So are most of my comments. He says I'm this and that, and I use the reverse psychology.

 

[Asclepias]

Let's just put it this way. Men are not a problem for me. I've always been able to get any man I've wanted. Never had a problem in that area.

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

 

[ChrisL]

I'm sorry, but my opinion is not costing us billions of dollars. I am just a woman on a message board making a point. If you want to take it so personally, I'm sorry but that is really not the important issue here.

Youre the only one taking it personally. I'm actually laughing at you. No one said your opinion is costing us billions of dollars. However you and others with the same opinion are responsible for people with low self esteem. How much do you think that costs us?

I am not responsible for people's low self esteem. People have low esteem because they don't feel good about themselves. That doesn't have anything to do with me. I don't go out of my way to be intentionally cruel when I see a fat person. However, this is a message board where we are encouraged to share our opinions, and that is what I'm doing.

People like you cause others that dont fight back to have low self esteem. Its an ugliness that obscures whatever physical beauty you may actually have.

People like me? I'm merely stating that I don't find obesity attractive. I'm sure there are many people who are MUCH more cruel. I'm just being honest.

I thought you were stating being obese was unhealthy and costing us billions. Which one is it?

Which one is it? It's both.

 

[ChrisL]

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies.

That's why they get bullied. Bullies like to pick on those they consider "weak."

 

[ChrisL]

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Is that your advice to people who are bullied in real life or online? I'm sorry, but I don't bully anyone. I don't talk about people's personal lives that I don't know. I make comments that are related to topics of discussion, perhaps the person started the topic. I also do not post threads about my personal life.

 

[ChrisL]

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

I disagree with you completely. You stand up to bullies.

Lots of people dont stand up to bullies. Thats why people like you cause others to have low self esteem.

Since you are accusing me of being bully, want to tell me who I am bullying here? Giving my general opinion on a legitimate problem and how I feel about it is not "bullying" any one person. That is just a general opinion given on a discussion board. Not meant to cause anyone "low" self esteem but just sharing my honest opinion on the matter. If someone took it personally, I apologize.

 

[ChrisL]

No? No comments about the thread topic, just going to be all upset about MY opinion about obesity? Okay then.

 

[ChrisL]

anyone can find someone to sleep with.

and i've generally found that people who grandstand about stuff like that on the internets are full of it.

but if you need that. it's all good.

I agree that people, in RL or on the internet, who make a big deal of how wonderful they are, whether it's looks or something else, usually have issues about that very thing. If you have to tell people you are attractive and make it a big issue, something seems very false about it.

I'm just defending myself against a weirdo on the internet who is obsessed with my appearance, where I live, how I live my life. I don't really know what your issue is with that. If you have a problem with that and think that it means something other than defending myself against . . . . some ridiculous internet troll, then I don't know what to say! I find it shocking though.

You are making a fool of yourself. My advice is to put him on ignore. He will stop doing what he is doing when there is no response. Frankly, your comments about your looks indicate low self esteem. Overall, your behavior on this thread is demeaning, to yourself. That's my opinion.

Hmm. I don't think that thinking I'm a smart and attractive woman indicates a low self esteem, so I have to disagree with that statement as well. This troll has been making some VERY disgusting, very personal remarks. You are suggesting that I take that kind of treatment from some strange man on the internet.

When you feel compelled to tell people you are smart and attractive, that indicates low self esteem. You said you took psychology courses: go back and review--it's common knowledge. You have been making very disgusting personal remarks toward him. Tit for tat. That is not a healthy way to deal with someone you don't like or who bothers you. I am suggesting that if you didn't respond, he would stop doing it. That also is in the psychology books.

I really want to break down this comment and show it for what it REALLY is saying. What you have claimed is that I am a "big meanie" (more or less) and that my general comments on obesity may "hurt" a person who is suffering from low esteem. Then you proceed to claim that I am a person who is suffering from low esteem, therefore I am not a victim and deserving of abuse by a strange man on the internet who cannot seem to stop making comments about my appearance and my personal life, where I live, how I live, my sexual habits, my pet, etc.

Do you see the hypocrisy here . . . . at all? Now, I can understand that you might disagree with me on some issues. That is to be expected in a place like this, but I expected you had some integrity and consistency.