I will grant that he doesn't seem to understand the power of the office and that he could do well to imitate Bush II in that aspect;
As for the winning not bothering people...are you new here? There are about 150-200 posters here who express their anger daily that Obama won. Two still think the election was rigged...at least two.
I'm used..
I'd rather he wouldn't have won but his legacy is perceptively dismal due to a lack of success in negotiating in good faith for the American people..
The ?able passing of Obama-care, started the poisoning of his Presidency..
As you're seeing with the "We'll shut the government down" crusade in the Senate right now headed up by 2016 GOP hopefuls, it's hardly Obama's fault.
As for Obamacare, deal making in Washington isn't new to the Obama administration. What is true though, is that he did campaign in 2008 on a "new beginning" and all that stuff. Turns out he's just another politician. We could do better and we could do much, much worse.