I have no clue? Let me give you a clue!
At 16 years old I was certified as an adult and sent to prison. I did 3 years in a penitentiary built in the 1800's. While in prison I got my ged and nothing more. I married my girlfriend in my last year despite the fact that she was pregnant by another. When I got out I got my own student loans and went to college.
About a year later your precious uncle Sam sued me for all the aid they had given my wife during my last year in prison. They said pay or we will find the real father and make him pay (obviously bringing him into the picture when he wasn't wanted) Did I cry? No, I paid.
By now I have 2 children, I'm in school my wife is in school and were working days & nights.
Jobs are definitely harder for me to find then, than they are for anyone now because of my past. Yet we managed.
The trade school she was in went belly up and ultimately we had to continue paying her tuition fees. I dropped out of DeVry and bought an old highway patrol car. Painted it yellow and paid checker a 495 weekly franchise fee to use their dispatch and name. While driving I got an education in home building and blueprints. After finishing that school I sold my cab and used that money to buy the basic tools needed to start a remodeling company.
The first business failed within 2 years because I was ill prepared for the financial side of it. I muddled around for about a year doing your so called bs jobs until I could muster enough drive to try again. That was 20+ years ago. I have done a lot of HUD work in the last 10 years and have seen FIRST hand how the system is abused. Some projects I was even required to hire from within the community I was working in and pay them ridiculous prevailing wages. Like 17 dollars an hour just to push a broom.
I am now an award winning contractor who has been on the cover of industry magazines and have won awards from Angieslist for 6 of the last 7 years.
So in my opinion I have a very large clue about employment and how the govt and people alike abuse the system. In short if a scumbag like I used to be can go against all the odds to become a success story then I have no sympathy for those who havnt had near the hurdles I have.
Self reliance.
Because of the lack of message board knowledge of how to quote someone multiple times... I will separate your quote into numerical order.
1. What were you sent to prison for? None of my business... just out of curiosity. Surely it was not just from being "deemed an adult".
2. My "precious Uncle Sam"? You have got to be kidding me... I don't believe in Uncle Sam anymore than you believe in the Easter Bunny. My stance is that "Uncle Sam" is corrupt because of Big business and banking and only want to serve them. What you don't realize is that there is 10-100X the amount of people that don't fit in to the "business world" and need a decent paying job that they can raise their family's on. Too ******* bad if takes a billionaire's third vacation home away. The difference is.... you believe that "Uncle Sam" is corrupt because of the people that are committing welfare fraud. I firmly believe that Welfare Fraud is the lesser of two evils when compared to the Corporate welfare that is taking place across this country.
3. I have seen first hand the people that your side's agenda hurts. I have been working in the Mental Retardation(for those that lack the current understanding of the term DEVELOPMENTALLY DISABLED) field since 1986. What you DON'T understand is that when you choose to advocate for the dismantling of those pesky "entitlements", you are not hurting those you hate oh-so-much(the people taking advantage of the system), but those that I work with on a daily basis..... Why? Because the people you hate with such vigor can do one thing that those that I work with can't.... vote.
Finally... you do have a clue.... from YOUR perspective, and that's the problem I have with Conservatives in general. It's always from a person's perspective that does well for themselves. It's rarely from the perspective of the people that tried and lost to those that "made it".... and even on occasion when it does happen, it's NEVER from the perspective of people that have tried many times and ended up in the shitter.
Like I said... YOU have NO clue how things are skewed towards those with resources. I am really glad that you slipped through the cracks in an upward basis. You are a rarity... if you are not lying. Don't get me wrong.... I am not calling you a liar, it's just the medium we are using to communicate that makes lying an easy thing to do.... sorry for the non-intended slight, in advance.
Like you I dunno how to separate quotes. To make it worse I'm on my EVO and can only see the last paragraph you wrote so ill do my best to respond.
1) I was charged with multiple crimes. They all revolved around a drug deal that went bad and then a subsequent escape from a juvenile detainment facility. I pled the charges down to : aggravated juvenile delinquency, aggravated assault, terroristic threat and tampering with a state witness. I escaped the following: aggravated arson, 2 counts auto theft, possession of narcotics with intent to distribute and some other minor charges. My deal took me from facing 5 to 15 to 2 to 10 I'm sure my young age was also a factor in the light sentence. I served all 3 years in Kansas State Industrial Reformitory in Hutchison Kansas.
2) I don't disagree that not everyone can lead and some must follow. And yes I do agree that the lobbying system is corrupt as are many of the politicians. But that doesn't leave us powerless. The last landslide election cycle is proof of that. Not necessarily pro republican as it was anti corruption. If that message is sent often enough change is inevitable. There are honorable people in our govt. We just need to find more. Personally if I see one of my congressmen/women vote self pay raises vote legislation that benefits them in any manner I vote against them in the next cycle. If more people paid attention and voted this way we could effect change. But alas many just sit back and cry about having no input so its pointless.
As far as your corporate welfare stance we agree. Unfortunately ending ethanol subsidies just failed to pass. I have yet to see how my congressmen voted but I will, and emails will be sent accordingly.
Your wrong on entitlement and welfare fraud though. I saw it bigtime both when I drove my cab as well as when I worked 7-11 and when I worked for the ACOE on HUD and military installations.
3) You can't preach to me about the needs of the disabled as my step-daughter has CP. I whole heartedly agree with a full safety net for those that can't take care of themselves. She had around 9 different spine, leg, knee, and neck surgeries before I met her mother. All paid for by uncle Sam.
To your assertion that I have hate for a segment of our country. I don't. Those that can do should do. My problem with entitlements is that they are simply unsustainable in their current form. Means testing, raising the age and partially privatizing I think are all good ideas to start with.
We all have a clue. And all of those clues come from our own personal lives. To claim yours are more valid than mine is absurd. Most of us have something to offer its just a matter of taking "all the ideas" and finding out what will work best. Criminalizing profit with outrageous taxation is not the answer. You know as well as everyone should that giving uncle Sam more money only guarantees 1 thing... they will spend it. I am certainly not wealthy but that matters not. I earned my money just like they did and the govt is not entitled to their money just because they made more than me.
Things are skewed to those with ambition. Money can get you ahead faster but that's about it. And I didn't slip through the cracks, I broke them open with hard work and walked through them with my head held up.
Lastly I couldn't care less if someone thinks I'm lying. This is the net and I have nothing to gain from lying. I do however have something to gain by telling my story as it happened... inspiration for those that think they have none.
Thanks for being interested and responding.
Ps. This is a real pain in the ass on my EVO so please no more long questions. This one took me 30 damn minutes with all the scrolling up and down.