So IF you know which Moderator is allegedly doing it, what can you do about it? Send a hallmark card or a box of chocolates?
Personally I understand why they remain anonymous as they are under a lot of attacks by many here through PM's, some moderators in forums will close down access to them for this very reason. Personally if I got harassed by someone whining over and over in the PM's I would give that person a 3 day vacation to stop it.
I am dealing with a problem right now at a blog where I moderate, in the e-mails with administrator a member is complaining about this very same person I am dealing with over and over, thankfully I am spared from having to deal with a whining complainer......
Moderators are busy enough in forums like this with a badly understaffed group struggling to keep up with a flow of 5,000 plus comments that sometimes have reached 7,000 in a day.