'Marriage isn't for you'

[LittleNipper]

'Marriage isn't for you'


Seth Adam Smith reflected in an article titled “Marriage isn’t for you” how he learned (the hard way) that marriage isn't about you, but rather the person you have chosen to spend your life with, and how you must support them and put them first.

His father had some inspiring wisdom to share: "You don't marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn't for yourself, you're marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn't for you. It's not about you. Marriage is about the person you married."

This said, I see no rational reason for what some would call "homosexual marriage." There, its fulfillment is in sexual gratification and sexual orientation. It has nothing to do with family or future children and their raising, learning, or setting the example for them. It is instead a selfish narcissistic desire to be sexually placated.

 

[BDBoop]

And after you get done being a doormat, you realize that you don't even know who you are.

His father is an idiot.

 

[LittleNipper]

And after you get done being a doormat, you realize that you don't even know who you are.

His father is an idiot.

Doormats are purchased. They are rarely free...

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Ya because lesbians never get pregnant, and there aren't thousands or millions of children needing adoption. Gay marriage is just about sex and tax breaks.

 

[LittleNipper]

Ya because lesbians never get pregnant, and there aren't thousands or millions of children needing adoption. Gay marriage is just about sex and tax breaks.

Well, there aren't thousands or millions of children needing adoption mainly by reason of the practice celibacy until marriage. And there are "lesbians" who get pregnant but not as a result of "homosexual" practices. Adopted children should be awarded the very same consideration as those with living parents ---- namely a mom and dad.

 

[LittleNipper]

Please see: A Letter From Fred on Vimeo

 

[bendog]

I was gonna say 'now you tell me,' but I see this is a gay thing. Marriage is simply a term. We've secularized it (I agree with Phil here). If the gays and lesbians think it makes them second class to not use the term for them, who am i to throw bricks at glass houses.

 

[LittleNipper]

I was gonna say 'now you tell me,' but I see this is a gay thing. Marriage is simply a term. We've secularized it (I agree with Phil here). If the gays and lesbians think it makes them second class to not use the term for them, who am i to throw bricks at glass houses.

"Sick" is only a term as is "dysfunctional." And yet, there are those who get offended at the application of such terms... If homosexuality is not the thing a family is made of, who are we to encourage it by open agreement and forced acceptance through socialistic governmental coercion.