Rabbi Akivah also said that "love thy neighbor/enemy" is nearly impossible to practice.. Since you cannot force someone to love. Loving is hard. That.ia why he came up with the Halacha of "don't do to others what you don't want done to you". Loving is hard.. But asking you to simply not be wicked is more possible.
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I agree, coined in fact, "It's hard to love your enemies if they kill you." But it's something we need to at least aspire to.
Only way to ever have a lasting peace is if someone says, "No more." Tit-for-tat back and forth doesn't work. Someone eventually has to forgo vengeance and be the better person. If we keep going round for round, death for death, nothing ever comes from it but more death.
Much as I love Israel, and would love to retire there, I'm not about to if doing so means I have to revert to a way of living I never enjoyed and get all Rambo'd up. I can be a good Jew anywhere. And if they wanna pick a fight with me here, I'll go there. If they come for me there there's other places to go. Defeatest? No. Just realistic. Unless you resolve to go all-in in warfare so it actually ends and isn't just a stalemate fighting at all is futile.