The religious crazies strike again.
But politicians are making the business of everyone in the country. Therefore, I have an opinion. Again, everyone, except for the mentally challenged, know how babies are made and know how to prevent them. Those choices are easy to make and all I am asking is that as humans, who have this great responsibility to not only create life, but also create life in a way that can be transformative on a personal, social and global level, and treat it the responsibility with a bit more dignity than if it were a common cold.
Or maybe you treat it like it is... a condition that can be treated with a pill or a 10-minute visit to your OB?GYN. It's just not a big deal.
The problem is you are dramatic over abortion. I don't really care, other than the enjoyment watching religious fanatics be upset that it's still legal in this country.
But you can't fathom that sitting behind your desk, a childless, famililess, fat ass old man troll. You don't know what it's like to love a child. To hold a baby that is yours. You don't know what it's like to guide and nurture that child and see it grow into a better you. You have no fucking clue you feckless fatherless troll that see human reproduction nothing more than a cold or a parasite.
No, what I can't fathom is religious crazies trying to pretend a fetus is the same dignity as an actual baby or an adult. When most abortions happen Globby is the size of a Lima bean and looks like a cocktail shrimp.
Frankly, this sounds a little narcissistic. If I did have a kid, I most certainly wouldn't want for him to be me. I would want him (or her) to be their own person. This is the problem with the anti-choice crowd. A bunch of males who strut around like they've accomplished something by planting their seed, and how dare those uppity women treat it like a cold or a parasite.
Just make sure you make all the other choices before having sex. And again, there are circumstance that occur, that I don't have a say, and it is the PARENTS choice to decide. Be responsible so the choice for abortion is the absolute last choice to be made. That's all I'm saying, but you go down these assumptions, making an ass of yourself time and time again.
Having abortions when you aren't ready to have a kid is very responsible. What's fucked up is marrying someone because birth control failed. Thank C'Thulhu we don't do that anymore!
The reality is, that you are trying to apply a logical process to an emotional response. Sometimes guys don't carry rubbers with them, sometimes rubbers break. Sometimes she tells you she's on the pill when she isn't.
When I was in the Service, one of my fellow NCO's was dating this young lady. College educated. Not stupid. From a very religious and traditional background. And when he didn't make good on his promises to marry her, she stopped taking her pills. When an "unexpected" pregnancy happened, she got an abortion when it was clear that wasn't going to get the knot tied.
Why? She didn't want her parents to know she wasn't still a virgin at 21.
Personal relationships ARE hard to navigate. People like you need to butt out.