Life is hard don't cry it won't help.
I agree with you

sorta- lots of folks have made millions crying, publicly (think music)-and some have made a lot of money just writing about grief- think Harlan Coben and Nicholas Sparks, both of whom have had tear jerker movies (chick flicks) made based on stories they've written- things can manifest themselves in ways unimaginable-
I just posted on a different message board ( an acoustic guitar forum) to a guy who was crying, kind of, because he was trying to re-arrange a song from a piano tune to a guitar format- but, the song really depressed him- he's as old as I am (73)- I allowed as how grieving is good therapy- re-arranging, or writing about an emotion, with emotion, is great therapy-
necessity (grieving is btw) is a mother of invention- he once posted a sketch of a girl he had dated a long time ago, which tripped my nostalgia button and inspired me to write, Janet- a song about a girl I knew when I was 15 that I had a tremendous crush on, and still do in my mind, so I grieve (cry) about it in song- I've written a number of very emotional songs and it is my best- to date- and, I'm
rearranging,
It Gets Easier, by Willie Nelson- it's about getting older- I'm re-arranging it to fit my need, to grieve, about getting older- my need- his fits the song, for him, it will fit me when I get it right- for me- and
I will feel better.
That someone else (on social media or the press) does it for you or about you isn't grieving, or crying- it's wanting attention- and most of us want attention- the problem with that is, you don't often get the attention you are craving-