Why is it that people need to play this game anyway................
If she's happy, then that's all that matters...........
Everything else is BS.
Two things.
1. The entire thread is based upon the OP's reaction to what others said about the woman, which is why I responded the way I did.
2. If she is happy, then she is happy. But that is NOT all that matters. Given a choice, if I am never asked, I'd never give her a second glance with regard to her weight, body shape, or anything else. I rarely waste time analyzing how people look and usually only notice this kind of then when women start getting catty. Then its just an eye roll.
However, if asked, I will always respond with truth. I detest people who think I should respond a certain way so that they can keep their mental justification for whatever it is they want Me to reply about. If asked, I won't say "No, those jeans don't make your ass look fat."
I could be wrong, but the entire purpose of this thread is a variation on the notion that girls make themselves sick by trying to be uber thin like a model and therefore we should go to the other extreme and say that its okay if you don't maintain a healthy body because we don't want you to starve yourself.
Why not just tell them to stop the nonsense, eat healthy and exercise. Keep your body measurements in line with your bodies healthy needs, throw away your scale and care about more than peoples responses of strangers to health questions.
This is really all I'm going to say in this thread. Too many people are responding to the picture of the woman and not to the reaction of the OP, who apparently thinks that anyone who would reply to a question different from herself are somehow ogres.