And too many are incapable of focusing on a topic and discussing it. They simply can't separate the topic from the one who is discussing it. They don't understand ad hominem and cannot avoid using it. Or they just simply want to spar via personal insult and aren't really interested in doing anything else.
I also think some people are deliberately trying to shut down discussion of ideas they don't like.
Basing a "discussion" on a canard and expecting no one to expose it is unrealistic.
Equally so is excluding the intentions and motivations behind the topic of the "discussion".
And most unrealistic of all is demanding that the OP be excluded from any legitimate criticism.
So a "discussion" based on a falsehood that no one is allowed to expose or legitimately criticize is not a "discussion" at all. Instead it is merely a bunch of dittoheads all nodding in unison to the same fallacies.
For the record here is the dictionary definition of the term discussion.
Discussion - Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary
discussion
noun dis·cus·sion \di-ˈskə-shən\
: the act of talking about something with another person or a group of people : a conversation about something
: a speech or piece of writing that gives information, ideas, opinions, etc., about something
Full Definition of DISCUSSION
1
: consideration of a question in open and usually informal debate
2
: a formal treatment of a topic in speech or writing
Examples of DISCUSSION
- The class was involved in a heated discussion about politics.
- I hope to have a discussion with them about the matter soon.
- After much discussion of the plan, the idea was rejected entirely.
- During the period under discussion, the town grew in size.
- The smoking ban is a major topic of discussion these days.
- The article is an in-depth discussion of his theories.
- The first chapter includes a discussion of childcare issues.
For the record I was accused of "spamming" by an OP in the SDZ for providing links like the one above that clarify any misunderstanding as to definitions of terms being used by the OP in those threads.
Go figure!
The CDZ was intended to be a forum where the thread author could direct and have some control over the discussion. There is absolutely no rule that you or anybody else has to go into the forum, open any thread, or participate in any way. If you don't like the topic or the rules for the thread or the way the thread is being handled, then simply do something else. This is not rocket science. The CDZ was not designed for you to dictate how it has to be done any more than it was designed for me to dictate how it has to be done. You should know by now how I participate on a message board. You have made it perfectly clear that I am unacceptable in every way. That's fine. I understand that. All you have to do to avoid being offended by me and my posting style is to not participate in my threads. Start your own threads and set them up as you think it should be done. Simple. Problem solved.
For starters your "posting style" is well within what is acceptable in the SDZ and I don't recall ever posting any criticism of how you post. What matters is what is factual and provable and what is false and hearsay. That relates to content rather than style and that is entirely different to how one posts. Everyone has their own style and it reflects their personality.
Unlike you I don't take legitimate criticism personally. I accept when I am wrong, apologize and move on. Furthermore I not "offended" by you and it is fallacious to claim that I find you "unacceptable in every way" since I have never made any such statement.
At worst you appear to be misguided and misinformed IMO. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy participating in your threads. Yes, you do get upset with me when I correct what you have posted and you make snarky remarks that are outside your own OP bounds but that is all just part of the fun.
Let's face it, if we all agreed with one another this place would be boring and we would rather go outside and watch the grass grow. Instead we get to spar with each other and try to make our points and positions clear. We might be on opposite sides of the political aisle but that doesn't make either of us "bad people".
One more thing. Let's cut out the attempts to "censor" who can post what and where. I have no more control over what you post and where you post than you have over me and what and where I post. If we end up butting heads then sobeit. We can disagree without being disagreeable. I have no animosity towards you personally. In fact I have no animosity towards anyone here at USMB. I come here because I enjoy the interactions and that is all there is to it.
Peace
DT