I'm guilty of being a profiler. When I see a young man muscular man, I profile him as being physically strong.....perhaps someone who works out. If I see a lady wearing a smock, I profile her as being a nurse. If I see someone who I'd driving a very expensive luxury car who also wears expensive cloths and jewelry, I profile that person as being rich. If I see someone using a wheelchair to get around, I profile that person as being handicap. If I see someone who has the facial features of having Downs Syndrome, I assume the person have Downs Syndrome. If I see a scantily clad woman hanging out at a street corner in a rough part of town, I profile her as being a hooker. If I see a man wearing a suit and carrying a bible in a hospital, I profile him as being a minister.
I could go on and on. Doesn't everyone profile?
If I see a young man or teenager who is dressed in gang style clothing strutting around like a "gangsta", I assume until evidence proves otherwise that the guy is a young thug. I'm i wrong to do this? Why?
I never profile, and yes, you're wrong to do so. "Profiling" is the pseudo-polite conservatard code-word for "discrimination," and of course, discrimination--in any form, in any capacity--is wrong.
Just because the people in your examples may appear to you to be a certain way doesn't mean that they actually are. So someone drives an expensive car and wears nice clothes--so what? That does not mean they're rich, it means they have an expensive car and expensive clothes. So what if someone
looks like they have Down Syndrome--have you ever considered that maybe they don't have Down Syndome, but are merely Uggo-Americans?
Your kind makes me sick. I'll bet you'd call someone a thief if they pointed a gun at you and demanded money. What if they're using the money to pay for a poor orphan's life-saving surgery? You really need to get some perspective.
Hi [MENTION=49168]LiberalMedia[/MENTION] I appreciate your concern and your high standards which are noble.
All people make associations, and we are all prone to make assumptions and mistakes.
It would be nice to be perfect, and always check ourselves.
But even with people we've known 10 or 20 years, we can make leaps and mistakes.
It happens to the best of us, even married people who think they already know it all!
We have those incidents where we can't understand "how could you NOT know"
"how did you assume THAT when you KNOW that's not what I was doing/thinking"
If we make assumptions and mistakes with even people we "know like the back of our hand"
surely we are going to make mistakes with people we don't know.
Even though you can't stand to see these mistakes in judgment, preventable or not,
we are less likely to make them when we FORGIVE one another in advance.
This "clears the air" of distrust and negative emotions that otherwise block our intuition.
The more open and receptive we are, we communicate better, and are more likely to ask in advance by sensing there is something inconsistent we are missing, rather than assume that other person is the problem and make a leap in judgment.
So I don't want to discourage you from seeking a perfect world with perfect human relations where we don't make mistakes that can be prevented.
Quite the opposite, I want to encourage you that to achieve this goal of perfect harmony and understanding, FORGIVENESS is the key to opening that door to connect with others.
Thanks and again I'm glad to see you here and posting your honest thoughts that are a beneficial contribution to this forum. I look forward to reading more of what you have to share. and I hope the other members of this board help you to be more effective in your outreach where it is needed the most! Thank you.