No one is claiming all wealth should be spread equally. Everyone should have equal opportunity. And, a perfect example of the wealthy not appreciated what they are granted, let's talk about wealth redistribution. Two students, one living in a country club development and attending a brand new modern high school. Other student, lives in the projects, attends an antiquated high school where the walls are molding and the textbooks are ten years old. Both parents pay taxes, but whose kid gets most of the benefits.
So, one student gets admitted to a competitive university. The other takes a job right out of high school. In fact, now he is an active taxpayer. The other kid only works part time while in school. The working kid pays more in taxes than the student, but the student is benefiting from the millions of dollars spent by the state at that public university. How is wealth being redistributed now?
Then there are student loans, grants, endowments, fellowships--how is that wealth being redistributed?
Down the road, the college student graduates, buys a nice house, in a nice neighborhood, with good schools. The other guy, like you said, he shares an apartment with his roommate. The college graduate has a 30 year mortgage, deducts the interest from his tax bill. The worker that doesn't own a home subsidizes the home owner. How is wealth being redistributed here?
Now the worker, he pays taxes, he has health insurance, but he struggles to pay his copays and it is hard to fund his 401K. The college graduate, he fully funds his 401k, fully funds a Roth-IRA, and fully funds an HSA. He hasn't paid a medical bill with after-tax dollars in a decade of raising a family. He gets tens of thousands of dollars in tax breaks, they are called tax expenditures, once again, how is wealth being redistributed here?