I don't care if it's $10.00. The government jumping in for their cut is bullshit. And why would you believe that they are only going to tax the rich? Because they said so???
14 million dollars is the estate tax exemption. The estate tax is the tax you pay for leaving money, or a legacy if you prefer, to your kids. So no, the government doesn't jump in for their cut until the value of the estate exceeds 14 million dollars, and that is per person, that is 28 million dollars for a married couple.
Even if that 14 million dollars in is unrealized capital gains, the government doesn't step in, there is no tax, the kids get the step up, automatically increasing the cost basis of the asset to the current market value.
Now, if you want to get upset, well what if you leave your 401k to your kids. I mean maybe that is the plan all along. You are over 70 and half, you take your minimum distribution every year, the government makes you so that you can pay taxes on that distribution, at the earned income rate, not the capital gains rate. Then you die, the kids get the 401k, but guess what, they have to take minimum distribution as well, pretty much on the same schedule as you were on. They get no step-up, and yes, they pay it at the earned income rate, not capital gains.
You don't understand the estate tax. You don't understand the step-up. You don't even understand the difference between taxes assessed on qualified plans and non-qualified plans. The reality is the estate tax is the only "voluntary" tax that I know of. You can either not pay the tax by not providing anything more than a minimum stipend to your children and giving the rest to charities. Hell, start a foundation. Create some charitable remainder trusts. Kids can run those foundations and collect a hefty salary in the process. Or fund the damn estate tax liability with a second to die life insurance policy, pennies on the dollar. Do you think Sam Walton's heirs paid the estate tax, LOL, hell no.
In the end, well you are probably going to get shit. Your 401k won't get a step up, you won't be anywhere close to the estate tax exemption, and yet here you are, bellyaching about the damn estate tax that you will never have to pay and your children won't have to pay. In my book, that makes you a useful idiot.