Dear [MENTION=46449]Delta4Embassy[/MENTION]:
I think the mistakes being made here
are attempting to make generalizations to cover "all cases"
instead of recognizing the experiences and reality may be different per person.
Who the heck decided that all cases/conditions of homosexual experiences
had to be EXACTLY THE SAME and ALL either natural or ALL unnatural?
Where did this come from? Is it reactionary to something that makes people
have to "neatly group" all homosexuality under one "safe label"
because it is too much trouble or opens up a can of worms
to find out not all cases are the same?
Is it just not convenient, so people are trying hard to argue it's "All one way"
as opposed to another?
I find this most disturbing.
If you are going to compare homosexuality to a minority group or race,
that is like trying to argue "all Blacks are naturally inferior" or
"all Blacks are acting completely naturally with nothing wrong"
(instead of focusing on the DIFFERENCE between what causes
unnatural behavior when it does occur in those cases; whether
heterosexual or homosexual, SOME attractions are NOT NATURAL,
so why not make THAT the focus instead of the orientation?).
In truth, there are some Black people who have nothing wrong with them more than anyone else of other groups,
but there are some Black people, whole populations affected by deep spiritual
corruption and tribal warfare creating a constant condition of retribution and genocide
which is NOT normal or healthy, and it IS spiritually tied to their Black heritage.
That doesn't make all Black people "cursed" as some believe; and that doesn't
mean Native Americans or European descendants can't ALSO carry generational curses, too.
So just arguing that "all Blacks are good or all Blacks are bad" is not addressing
the real issues of what is causing problems with perception of race and with
generational issues UNIQUE to Black populations that aren't natural and need to be addressed and resolved.
With homosexuality, if people identify they have "unwanted sexual attractions"
what is WRONG with them saying that homosexuality is NOT natural for them,
and saying their experiences to work through their issues and change WAS
natural for them.
Why can't we INCLUDE those people and their experiences when we talk about homosexuality, so we aren't discriminating and excluding anyone either?
I find the truly open minded people who no longer judge these things, are aware that there are some people naturally or spiritually born to have homosexual relations or partners,
some can change and some may not.
If you are going to argue that all people's experiences are the same, either way,
I find that only invokes more resistance and objections so it doesn't solve any problems.
I think the problems can be solved by accepting all people's diverse views
and recognizing there are always SOME people out there that it applies to, and that
doesn't negate other experiences and views from the complete opposite direction
that apply to OTHER people. Why does it have to be all one way? Who declared this?
Well, we have to be honest. Homosexuality does harm people. It harms the ignorant uptight folks who're insecure about their own sexuality. Since homosexuals are often open and honest about their approach to sex, it makes those that aren't uncomfortable.
The evolution of sexuality, and education about it in the US is fascinating. Was skimming a site earlier looking for some things I recalled reading about this and some of my notes include:
In 1970, the White House Commission on Pornography and Obscenity found no real harm in sexually explicit material. President Richard Nixon refused to issue the report.
A Victorian ethic dominated the country (1800-). Preachers and health advocates, like Sylvester Graham and John Kellogg, promoted a fear of sexual excesses, such as sex before age 30 or more than once in three years, and a paranoia about the dangers of masturbation.
The International Encyclopedia of Sexuality: United States of America
Knew Kellogg was a prude as per that Matthew Broderick movie featuring him but I had no idea how prudish.

Not before 30, and then just once every 3 years? Thought we had it bad right now but geez.