"We" are not brewing this cup of hemlock editec. Selfish, deadbeat dads are brewing it. The shelters are filled with "women and children". Where are the ******* men?
In the first place, there is no shortage of men in homeless shelters
In the second place, men without jobs to sup[port their families are men who are not deadbeats.
Now to the extent that some men who could support their families, but who abandon their families, I am sympathetic to your ire.
But I suspect that the term deadbeat dad is a tad overused.
I know that States that punish men for being deadbeats, often have no choice given that they do not make enough money to support their families as they have been ordered to.
The state still calls them deadbeats, but if they have no money, they're not really deadbeats, they're simply POOR.