Seek professional help. Or an interior decorator..,
You said the magic word. "Help".
That's really what we're talking about here, right?
First, (I will speak only for myself) "I" would like to help transgender individuals, not commit suicide, and feel comfortable in their own skin and around people (even people who don't understand them).
And, PP has expressed an interest in helping children become better human beings. I think we all want that, I certainly do. it's why we send our kids to schools and churches and summer camps, so they can socialize.
I support goal #1, and I support goal #2.
And really, both of those goals should be attainable.
The only thing that says they're somehow antagonistic or mutually exclusive, is the politics. And, I don't "believe" the politics, and I don't "like" the politics.
The politics, is what brings this stuff into the kindergarten classroom.
Teachers, are supposed to be IMPARTIAL. Equal application of the law. When bullying is happening, the teacher will step in because bullying is happening, not because it's being done "to" a black girl or a transgender.
Kids learn THIS: as long as you TREAT people differently, they will be PERCEIVED differently. If you're always bending over backwards to help the transgender kids, all the other kids will learn that transgender kids need special help. And that perception will probably last a lifetime, with a few exceptions.
We "help" trans kids by helping to build a support structure. We "don't" help them by putting them in the spotlight.
"Gender dysphoria" is much like anxiety. Everyone has some, sometime. "Most" little girls are tomboys at some point And, some people have more than others, sometimes it's temporary and manageable and sometimes it's a persistent clinical condition. The incidence of "persistent clinical condition" is VERY rare, less than 1%.
Same with authentic biological mysgender, it's VERY rare. Again considerably less than 1%.
The PROBLEM from a political and parental standpoint, is that authentic biological gender dysphoria gets lumped into the POLITICAL entity called LGBTQ, which includes... y'know... musicians who claim to be "pansexual" which just means they have no boundaries and they'll **** anything that moves (ie this condition is "non-biological").