You don't know your privacy law, Coyote...schools do in fact have the right to release information to the student's parents.
We are talking Higher Education, not primary schools or high schools. I work for a university and I am very familiar with the laws because I have to adhere to them or I get in trouble. Schools can not release information even to a parent without a signed form on file allowing them to do so (if the student is 18 or over, which covers most).
You may think you know the law but you don't really...
"When a student turns 18 years old or enters a postsecondary institution at any age, all rights afforded to parents under FERPA transfer to the student. However, FERPA also provides ways in which schools may share information with parents without the student's consent. For example:
Schools may disclose education records to parents if the student is a dependent for income tax purposes.
Schools may disclose education records to parents if a health or safety emergency involves their son or daughter.
Schools may inform parents if the student who is under age 21 has violated any law or its policy concerning the use or possession of alcohol or a controlled substance.
A school official may generally share with a parent information that is based on that official's personal knowledge or observation of the student."
Secretary of Education Margaret Spellings