Anyone who even uses the word, "hate" in this discussion is either a liar or an idiot. Or both.
The Judeo-Christian community has uniformly and universally condemned same-sex sodomy as seriously sinful behavior for thousands of years. It has nothing to do with "hate." It has to do with moral teachings flowing down, unambiguously, from the Bible and other Church traditions, some of which are written and some not.
Christians do not "hate" sodomites but they abhor sodomy and absolutely reject the premise that it is excusable if the actor is innately inclined to do it - which is basically the position of quasi-Christian homosexuals today. Christians also abhor the fact that people voluntarily proclaim their tendency to commit acts of sodomy, and publicly proclaim their intention to engage in it through gay "marriages."
Abhoring sodomy is NOT THE SAME has hating sodomites, any more than abhoring adultery is not the same as hating former President William Jefferson Clinton.
Few Christians protested when the U.S. Supreme Court basically voided all laws criminalizing sodomy in private between consenting adults. It was generally acknowledged that this moral belief could no longer be imposed on those who do not share it. So most Christians concede that in our diverse society, homosexuals can engage in whatever conduct they like in private, they can live together, they can PROMISE FOREVER TO LIVE IN whatever arrangement they want, even if it is analogous to a traditional marriage. No Christians are protesting "love" between people of the same sex.
But for a federal judge to overturn 200 years of legal precedent and the clearly expressed will of the people of a state to maintain the integrity of legal marriage is an outrage, worthy of public protests.
And make no mistake, THERE IS NO PROVISION OF THE U.S. CONSTITUTION THAT CAN LEGITIMATELY BE CITED TO SUPPORT AN INDIVIDUAL'S "RIGHT" TO MARRY SOMEONE OF THE SAME GENDER. Just as there is no constitutional right to marry your brother. It is entirely a matter for the States to decide.
(Recognizing marriages from other states is a different matter).
But this is the same bullshit that Democrats always do. They totally mischaracterize the actions of people they don't like, then excoriate the mischaracterizations. In this case, characterizing this legitimate protest as an expression of "hate" for people.