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Sadly there is suffering and injustice in this World. Most people here do not understand your situation and will be judgmental of you.It's not specifically the "good behaviour" that I expect to be rewarded, loyalty and Faith maybe that what is in ones heart is known to God. It's moreso the evil deeds and those who bear false witness that I would expect to be prevented from success.
I do not think anyone in his situation can think clearly. He is being abused and Canadian laws are on the side of abuser.I am not talking about his domestic violence situation only; he says he has been a victim since birth. That mindset must only lead to more victimization. Yes?
I'm not blaming God, I have simply never been protected even though my Faith is strong. The truth is always manipulated and I constantly bear the costs. Read the Book of Job, it's frighteningly accurate as to the general experiences in my life. No one can continually suffer with a smile on their face.Sadly there is suffering and injustice in this World. Most people here do not understand your situation and will be judgmental of you.
Nevertheless, blaming G-d and blasphemy are among worst sins possible.
Right now you must escape from your situation. I can emotionally support you, but I can not give any legal or other advice.I'm not blaming God, I have simply never been protected even though my Faith is strong. The truth is always manipulated and I constantly bear the costs. Read the Book of Job, it's frighteningly accurate as to the general experiences in my life. No one can continually suffer with a smile on their face.
Easier said than done. I raised this premise with others while I was going through the abuse and a lady who is experienced in these matters echoed my statement. Picking up and lesving, especially one you took vows with while hundreds of miles.away from family is very difficultRight now you must escape from your situation. I can emotionally support you, but I can not give any legal or other advice.
Indeed, leaving abuse is difficult and you need a lot of support. You do not owe your abuser anything.Easier said than done. I raised this premier with others while I was going through the abuse and a lady who is experienced in these matters echoed my statement. Picking up and lesving, especially one you took vows with while hundreds of miles.away from family is very difficult
It's very complicated. It's so complicated that I've prayed to God and relied on his guidance. Here I am, decades of trying to find peace without success. I thought my little dream had been found but it was the beginning of another nightmare.Indeed, leaving abuse is difficult and you need a lot of support. You do not owe your abuser anything.
I'm not blaming God, I have simply never been protected even though my Faith is strong. The truth is always manipulated and I constantly bear the costs. Read the Book of Job, it's frighteningly accurate as to the general experiences in my life. No one can continually suffer with a smile on their face.
I've had the sores a long time ago. They seem to never heal. The negativity is the reflection of my reality. When you've never truly had independence and self determination you would understand.Are you covered in open sores? So bad the dogs come and lick them?
That's where Job was. I'm sorry but your attitude is very negative and defeatest and that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You need to escape your situation and find a good therapist. I take 75 mg Effexor per day.I've had the sores a long time ago. They seem to never heal. The negativity is the reflection of my reality. When you've never truly had independence and self determination you would understand.
Therapy doesn't help alter years of abuse and now the situation I have been placed in after doing what I tried to avoid for just this resson, I don't trust the system.You need to escape your situation and find a good therapist. I take 75 mg Effexor per day.
You have to find some male-friendly psychological and legal specialists in abuse.Therapy doesn't alter years of abuse and now the situation I have been placed in after doing what I tried to avoid for just this ressokn,I don't trust the system.
I have a friend who taught me, "You don't get what you deserve, or even what you ask for. You get what you negotiate for."Therapy doesn't help alter years of abuse and now the situation I have been placed in after doing what I tried to avoid for just this resson, I don't trust the system.
NO! Trying to negotiate with an abuser will make them more abusive. Escape is the only way.For example, instead of striking you, she might slam a book to the floor. Figure out a bad habit of yours your spouse would like to see changed. Say you will give that up and replace it with doing the dishes (just an example).
Excuse me...but I am taking him at his word that there is either no escape or for some reason he feels he must remain where he is. If you can convince him to escape, more power to you. The solution I offered was not 'an instead of' it was a 'here's something you can try if you must--or insist upon--staying'. And I stand by it.NO! Trying to negotiate with an abuser will make them more abusive. Escape is the only way.
Excuse me...but I am taking him at his word that there is either no escape or for some reason he feels he must remain where he is. If you can convince him to escape, more power to you. The solution I offered was not 'an instead of' it was a 'here's something you can try if you must--or insist upon--staying'. And I stand by it.
We were never promised a rose garden. Your faith will always be tested.You pray, you try and walk the righteous path but God punished you. Have you felt this way? If so, how do you overcome the feeling?
Thank you, and so are you. I wish you all the best, and will pray for that, too.You're a good person.
