Did anyone else grow up in a dysfunctional and/or abusive household?

[skye]

Everyone experiences a dysfunctional life at some time.

Although I never agree with you lol.....I do this time.


And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

 

[evenifigoalone]

My abuser was a woman. I am a woman.

It's tough luck to get any sympathy from a dude for that.

up to the discretion of the employer as to how any knowledge of mental illness might affect the employee's role. I'm not an expert on these, and I know that mental health discrimination is real,

Just stay pregnant, barefoot, in the kitchen, obey your mentally healthy husband, and you won't have any of these problems.

Shit or get off the pot at that damned psych clinic. You're mentally ill and it's time for performance reviews at work, you aren't exactly in line for promotion at any normal kind of job like everybody else.

Seeing as you're failing to provide any citation and google searches are bringing up zilch to back up your claims, I'm just gonna go ahead and say you're full of shit. Back up your words with credible sources, my guy.
edit: Psychologist friend says it sounds like you don't know what you're talking about, either.

 

[evenifigoalone]

And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

Quite rude to dismiss my experience altogether without even knowing what it was.

 

[justinacolmena]

Seeing as you're failing to provide any citation and google searches are bringing up zilch to back up your claims, I'm just gonna go ahead and say you're full of shit. Back up your words with credible sources, my guy.

I don't do guy shit, and I don't surf porn on Google if that's where you go for "research."

There is many a dude who expects another dude to turn around 180° and be his girlfriend.

And way too often a gal expects another gal to roll over on the other side AND turn 180° to be her ducking boyfriend.

And that's all in the mental health system as if people can't be gay without a civil commitment ceremony in a court of law.

 

[skye]

And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

Quite rude to dismiss my experience altogether without even knowing what it was.

Sorry.....but you are not in a psychiatrist couch right now.

This is a political forum and we are not doctors, well I am not a doctor. I said what I think is right for me to say.

 

[evenifigoalone]

Seeing as you're failing to provide any citation and google searches are bringing up zilch to back up your claims, I'm just gonna go ahead and say you're full of shit. Back up your words with credible sources, my guy.

I don't do guy shit, and I don't surf porn on Google if that's where you go for "research."

There is many a dude who expects another dude to turn around 180° and be his girlfriend.

And way too often a gal expects another gal to roll over on the other side AND turn 180° to be her ducking boyfriend.

And that's all in the mental health system as if people can't be gay without a civil commitment ceremony in a court of law.

So you can't give any credible source, or you would have by now. Thought so. Bye, fail troll.

 

[evenifigoalone]

And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

Quite rude to dismiss my experience altogether without even knowing what it was.

Sorry.....but you are not in a psychiatrist couch right now.

This is a political forum and we are not doctors, well I am not a doctor. I said what I think is right for me to say.

For the record I don't and never have thought that spanking was abusive. But emotional abuse is very real and research shows it's just as destructive as physical abuse.
I said this in an earlier post, but try being screamed at for literal hours over a small mistake so that the only way to escape was to pretend to fall asleep (and even that didn't work most of the time), being blamed for the entire family's emotional problems, being blamed for younger sibling's bad behavior, being hit by younger sibling and they get away with it but if you dare to defend yourself and hit them back you get another several hours long screaming session, etc. Live like that for a few years and tell me that was a great family to live in.

 

[skye]

And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

Quite rude to dismiss my experience altogether without even knowing what it was.

Sorry.....but you are not in a psychiatrist couch right now.

This is a political forum and we are not doctors, well I am not a doctor. I said what I think is right for me to say.

For the record I don't and never have thought that spanking was abusive. But emotional abuse is very real and research shows it's just as destructive as physical abuse.
I said this in an earlier post, but try being screamed at for literal hours over a small mistake so that the only way to escape was to pretend to fall asleep (and even that didn't work most of the time), being blamed for the entire family's emotional problems, being blamed for younger sibling's bad behavior, being hit by younger sibling and they get away with it but if you dare to defend yourself and hit them back you get another several hours long screaming session, etc. Live like that for a few years and tell me that was a great family to live in.

Look, I feel sorry for you.

But on the other hand....what makes you think you will find some advice - which you seem to need - on a political forum?

That's where you have lost me.

 

[evenifigoalone]

And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

Quite rude to dismiss my experience altogether without even knowing what it was.

Sorry.....but you are not in a psychiatrist couch right now.

This is a political forum and we are not doctors, well I am not a doctor. I said what I think is right for me to say.

For the record I don't and never have thought that spanking was abusive. But emotional abuse is very real and research shows it's just as destructive as physical abuse.
I said this in an earlier post, but try being screamed at for literal hours over a small mistake so that the only way to escape was to pretend to fall asleep (and even that didn't work most of the time), being blamed for the entire family's emotional problems, being blamed for younger sibling's bad behavior, being hit by younger sibling and they get away with it but if you dare to defend yourself and hit them back you get another several hours long screaming session, etc. Live like that for a few years and tell me that was a great family to live in.

Look, I feel sorry for you.

But on the other hand....what makes you think you will find some advice - which you seem to need - on a political forum?

That's where you have lost me.

Mainly just need to talk about this stuff somewhere other than just in therapy. I tried to join some forums made for this kind of discussion, but they are either inactive or I get next to no feedback. Or it's a forum for discussing something like domestic violence, which I don't think fits my past situation.

 

[skye]

And if "dysfunctional" means that if now and then our Dad slapped us because we were naughty.... and we all will become crazy lol.... that's ridiculous.

What is dysfunctional is to live in a home where all children will grow up to be spineless snowflakes....in my opinion that's dysfunctional.

Quite rude to dismiss my experience altogether without even knowing what it was.

Sorry.....but you are not in a psychiatrist couch right now.

This is a political forum and we are not doctors, well I am not a doctor. I said what I think is right for me to say.

For the record I don't and never have thought that spanking was abusive. But emotional abuse is very real and research shows it's just as destructive as physical abuse.
I said this in an earlier post, but try being screamed at for literal hours over a small mistake so that the only way to escape was to pretend to fall asleep (and even that didn't work most of the time), being blamed for the entire family's emotional problems, being blamed for younger sibling's bad behavior, being hit by younger sibling and they get away with it but if you dare to defend yourself and hit them back you get another several hours long screaming session, etc. Live like that for a few years and tell me that was a great family to live in.

Look, I feel sorry for you.

But on the other hand....what makes you think you will find some advice - which you seem to need - on a political forum?

That's where you have lost me.

Mainly just need to talk about this stuff somewhere other than just in therapy. I tried to join some forums made for this kind of discussion, but they are either inactive or I get next to no feedback. Or it's a forum for discussing something like domestic violence, which I don't think fits my past situation.

ok look... what can I say? I said all I have to say. That's it.