"I see all the shit that goes down"....OK, Provide some believable examples.
"thankless, soul-sucking work"......Then WHY are you doing it? Not only do you despise the people for whom you work, you hate your job? Please show me the logic
Depends which part of the work you are talking about.
The part where I solve problems, make things happen, get product out the door on a deadline, come up with better ways of doing things- Those things are awesome.
Dealing with all the office politics bullshit, the lies, the egos larger than life... meh, not so much.