Anybody can, it is called lucid dreaming.
It's a learned thing.
I taught myself though...so that makes me SPECIAL dammit.
Actually, I think my mom might have planted the seed...I think she might have told me to exert control in my scary dreams, and that's when I started working on it.
Cuz I had some scary-assed dreams...and sometimes, I wasn't even completely asleep...think giant spiders and strange shadowy killers with axes, and drowning, and car wrecks, and zombies chasing...and I was just a little kid!
I still have these incredibly intricate dreams with well defined characters and a definite plot...often murder-mystery plots (understandable, I do read quite a few thrillers). I also dream music, and colors, and of flying!
Once in a while a bad dream will catch me unawares and I won't realize, in my dream, that I'm dreaming, and I'll wake up and have a moment of OHMIGOD oh thank goodness, it's just a dream...
And those are enjoyable too, if only because of the immense relief when they aren't true.
Sky here's a little tidbit for you..my girlfriends used to make me read tarot cards in the bar. I told them it was all hooey, but I'm really good at it. I don't have to know somebody but I can read tarot and make it apply to them whether I know them or not. Its all about *universal truth* and being observant.
All sort of the same stuff as the dreams...recognizing and picking up on cues, manipulation of symbols, that sort of thing.