Here are the facts kids...in order to keep gays and lesbians from legal, civil marriage you must be able to identify a societal harm in allowing us to legally marry each other. We don't have to prove our worth to society, you have to prove that gays and lesbians marrying is a detriment. You can't which is why Federal Court after Federal Court is striking down these anti gay laws.
Again, notice the ever present Relativist qualifiers: Legal and legally.
Never 'moral' or 'morally'
But let's address the query: "...you must be able to identify a societal harm..."
Golly, let's see: What harm could possibly come from pretending that what is incontrovertibly ABNORMAL is Normal?
Does anyone reading this believe that societal delusion could result in societal harm? I mean it works SO WELL FOR THE INDIVIDUAL, what could possibly go wrong when ya sread it out over 300 million individuals.
Suffice it to say that even the homosexuals that marry hetero-females feel like their punched in the gut, when they find that their progeny is gay. Just as they feel when they learn that their child has down-syndrome, or any other debilitating disease.
Need another clue? "Homophobe". Who uses this? Homosexuals use it as a means to cow their opposition, by projecting upon others, that which THEY KNOW: HURTS THEM. Which is that which identifies them as DEVIANTS!
Yet, there they are, demanding that YOU ACCEPT THEM AS THAT WHICH THEY KNOW IS FALSE, THEMSELVES!
Deceit <=> FRAUD <=> Ignorance
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