Interesting that you see no difference between people fearing you or hating you. For most people, the word "hate" is not one in daily useage, but with you right wingers, it's used constantly. Anyone who disagrees with you "hates" you. Anyone who doesn't live like you, "hates" you. Anyone who doesn't look like you, "hates" you. This is classic projection. Nobody hates you because you're not important to them. You, and people like you are, irrelevant to their lives.
The reality is that no sane person wastes their time or energy on "hating" others. You cannot get ahead when you spend all of your time and energy on "getting even". That's why Donald Trump has been a lifelong failure at everything he does. He wants to get even with everyone who so much as disagrees with him. How dare they!!!
Your assumptions of "what they might do" say more about what YOU would LIKE to do than they say about what your perceived "enemies" would actually do to you. Your "enemies" would just leave you alone and let you live your sad miserable life.