Either
-You are equal to men. We might or might not open a door of pull your chair out. Personally, i hold doors for whoever's behind me regardless of their gender- it's just the polite thing to do. You can decide whether or not to marry but you can also be criticized for being promiscuous just as a man can. You can be a part of public discourse, but you're open to the same criticisms and attacks as any male politician. You can enter any career you're competent at, but you will be expected to work just as hard as a man- equal pay for equal work. You can speak your mind, but you will also be spoken to and of like anyone else. You are to be treated equally in all ways and judged for your own competence, strengths, weaknesses, intelligence (or lack thereof), and character as an individual.
Or
-You are not equal. You remain less than a man. You will be treated with kiddy gloves at all times. You will remain nude, stay in the ******* kitchen, and spread your legs whenever your husband demands. You will not be expected to wait in line like everyone else or to know how to use a doorknob. You will always be known as 'woman' and you will keep your ******* mouth shut in the presence of a man since you're too stupid and delicate to be a part of a conversation involving men, politics, cars, or anything else outside of cooking recipes and how to be a good little hausfrau. You will be neither expected nor allowed to do anything but clean and make dinner and babies.