It is always our responsibility.
Then why are Mad an Sy trying so hard to avoid taking responsibility for the choice to have a child outside of a committed relationship?
Men don't have to do shit.
Clearly, you know nothing of child support. Many a man who was among the 30+ to bang a slut is paying for it for 18 years. because she doesn't want to take responsibility for her life choices.
And according to Madeline, biology is destiny, so stop bitching.
I know nothing about child support? Are you ******* serious?
And if you bang a slut, you are half responsible dip shit. In reality assholes are only about 1% responsible. My child doesn't even know that the person who is his sperm donor is his father. It is really for a single jerkoff to talk about taking responsibility. Grow up, and join the real world.
Child support is so fucked up, at least in my state it is. My brother's dad is supposed to "pay" three-hundred a month. That's about just enough for groceries for him. And my brother has a part-time job that the state has recently taken into account and then lowered his dad's monthly payments because of it--which he doesn't pay anyways. They've got this three-month window after being in a new job where you don't have to pay. So his dad has been skipping from part-time job to part-time job every couple months over the past few years, slipping through the 3-month loop hole, and working full-time for one of his buddies for cash that the state doesn't know about so can't collect. And he was getting unemployment, but the state didn't even take out the full monthly amount he owes, just one-fourth of it. He's also got another kid he has to pay child support for, but doesn't, and also has two kids with his wife which he spoils filthy. My brother is just a financial hassle for him, nothing more.
This is not laziness, or just irresponsibility on his dad's part... it's an actual campaign to avoid what little bit of obligation he has to his kid. And there's so many child support cases, the state just can't keep up with each one. If someone doesn't want to pay, they'll do whatever they can to not pay, and there's enough of this happening that the "dad" can get away with it. My brother cut ties with him a few months ago--he's eighteen in May--and once he turns 18, then all that money his dad owes, which is like 11K total, he no longer has to pay. Such bullshit.
The fundamental problem, as I see it, is that a man who pays the child support without any prodding from the state will also be the kind of father who is involved in his kid's life... a good dad who deeply and openly loves his kid but just couldn't reconcile some serious drama with the mama, and this dad would make sure his kid was financially taken care of anyways even without the state requirement. But the "men" who need prodding from the state to pay--the ones that are the problems, and the reasons why child support had to be set-up by the state in the first place--aren't trying to be a father anyways. When it comes to child support, I think the latter "dad" is more common than the former. So the state is trying to force parental obligation on someone who will do whatever they can to avoid it. And avoiding it isn't hard if you know the game. I think the whole system needs to be reworked, close the loopholes, and get seriously tough on the delinquent "dads". The state is supposed to take the amount he owes out of his tax returns and direct deposit it into my mom's account, but they don't because he's filed his taxes in a way where he won't get any returns even though he could--he's straight up told my mom this.
Unless someone has had to deal with child support first hand, they don't know shit about it... and that fact is obvious to those who have dealt with it.
You have shown in the past you do not care how a man treats a woman. You have repeatedly take the side of men who treat women badly, or say bullshit like JB has. You can turn your back on your gender all you want, but it says a lot about you.
