Mr. P said:
I dont blame the State or the Church; I blame the extreme Right wing anti gay bible thumpers for this one. You know the ones that want you to live as they say you should live. They care so much ya know. IMO That's who you need to thank, Karl.
How about blaming an extremely vocal, politically aggressive minority whose leadership doesn't care a whit about advancing human dignity but its own power? That's not the extreme right wing. Most people in this country think homosexuality is wrong. They think that gay marriage is wrong. Many think gay adoption is wrong. Those beliefs aren't extreme, those beliefs are main stream.
No one is saying gays shouldn't sleep with gays here. It's the State of Massachussets saying "you can't exercise your conscience, you aren't entitled to the protections that the First Amendment guarantees"
This is the same state whose judiciary ORDERED its legislature to legalize gay marriage!!!!! If that wasn't an unconstitutional power grab, what is?
The government of a state is now deciding on its own that parts of the US Constitution are valid.
Remember what happened two years ago in New Paltz, New York and in San Francisco? The officials of those places took the law into their own hands and started marrying gays... in violation of their respective states' laws. And to make matters worse, the voters of the State of California decided to ban gay marriage in a state referendum some years before!!!!
So what kind of society are we supposed to become to accomodate gays? One where the judiciary oversteps its Constitutionally mandated powers, one where States decide which part of the Constitution they will decide to uphold and one where the executive branch of any jurisdiction breaks the law whenever it wants to? That's not the kind of world I want to live in. And if we keep going down that path just to correct some perceived injustice, eventually we'll all find ourselves living in a police state or in total anarchy.
If gays want to adopt, fine, let the voters decide. But not at the expense of First Amendment rights.
If there is a bible thumping bunch of right wing extremists that want to overthrow the government, they're doing a pretty lousy job letting gays just get away with all that crap! The fact is that there isn't a well organized right wing bible thumping cabal wielding great power as you seem to think, otherwise, there would be forced prayer in school, abortion would be illegal, gays would not be allowed to parade themselves in their pink tutus down Main Street USA...