Reminds me of that Chinese (I think) proverb of the man who had a son who was farming. It went something like this (it is not exact). The farmer had a good year, and someone said to his father, "How fortunate your son is; he made a great deal of money." The father said, "We will wait and see whether or not he was fortunate." The son bought new farm animals, one which kicked him and broke his leg. The neighbor said, "How unfortunate!" The father said, "We will wait and see whether it was unfortunate or fortunate." The military came through the village, gathering up all the able-bodied young men to go to war. They rejected taking the son. The neighbor said, "How fortunate!" The father said....(we know.)
The point is, some people do not reflect on the fortunate parts that may come from disaster.