Spare_change
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By having the schools finally become the authority to school. right now, we enable parents to shirk their responsibilities make allowing students with sub par progress be passed on to the next grade. Once the parents FINALLY realize that working WITH the schools will enable their children to become successful students, they just may realize that they, too, are responsible for their children's success.Anything taking the blame off of us and put on the families. We have to change the the curriculum from social engineering to purely academics. Also, the families have to finally understand that they, too have the power of making sure their child is prepared for school and supporting the teachers in making sure they are doing homework and understanding that retention is indeed an option at the end of the year if they cannot master the basics of the program.
Just how are you going to make that happen?
We have to stop this culture that schools are not important and make parents realize the children;s progress is also their responsibility. No parent want to see their children fail. It is incumbent of the school and teacher to keep the parents informed early that their child is in peril of not making enough progress. At that time it is up to the teacher to meet with them and design plans for home assistance and extra work in the subjects that they need. That's where workshops for parents are needed and they will focus on the need of their particular child.
No student will be passed onto the next grade without meeting the minimum standards.
In all my experience, I have had but two families reject the help and tried to force passing their child on to the next grade. I and the principal refused and showed them all copies of the communications that I and the school sent to them, plus warnings that retention was possible. The students were retained the following year.
Oh, so it is that easy?
How do you do this when most of the parents of my former students are not Mom and Dad. I could count the number of students in my classes (a total of over 100 students) that had two married parents on one hand! Most lived with drug-addicted mothers, overwhelmed grandmothers, disinterested aunts, or were in the foster care system. Mom or Dad and sometimes both were incarcerated. Most were not born in the US, nor were they US citizens. Those are the students that kill our test scores.
What do you do if a parent speaks a language for which there are literally no translators?
It is so easy to come up with solutions if we assume all of our students come from two-parent, stable, and economically stable families, The problem is most of the time those kids don't need the help.
I sum it up this way: Poor students make for very poor students.
YOU personify the arrogance of the "educational elite". You ARE the problem - not those parents. But, hey, you found an excuse to justify your inability to educate --- so I guess it works for you.
Just put away the holier than thou attitude. It just proves you to be a classless, undereducated moron who like to spam message boards with your tripe.
You could not answer any of those questions, so you went for the insult. That is just like a typical educational expert wannabe!
We are all stocked up on stupid, We don't need any more.
Answer what questions? Your tired little rant about how you could be a really great teacher if only you didn't have to deal with parents? That one?
If you're looking for excuses - and, obviously, you are - that's as good an excuse as any.