The Irish Ram
LITTLE GIRL / Ram Tough
You are punishing the children
Their parents are punishing those children, and putting them in harm's way, to reap benefits the the parents are not entitled to.
Actually, many are attempting to either escape extreme poverty or violence to better their own lives but your way sounds so much more dismissive and palatable.
You forgot to mention that my way is also the correct way. Beats catapulting your children over the wall, hoping it gets you in. How irresponsible of the parents, turning their own kids into potential meal tickets.