I've gone back to Lumpy's scenario which is basically ' what does a man have to do to get sex these days '. A lot or a little. I say it depends on the all the variables.
Making the woman do a little work isn't a bad idea either, it gives you a chance to find out what kind of person she is and whether she's appreciative and willing to reciprocate.
Making the woman work ? I think your getting the point now. You mean it's not something that's expected from them ?>
Nope, not usually.
Men seem to think they're expected to do all the chasing, know everything, provide everything and come up with all the answers. And they end up being wrong more times than not. Why? Beacuse they don't make the woman work, don't ask, just guess and forge ahead without asking for her input. Why put all the pressure on yourselves when the women WANT to help, they're just not being given an opportunity?
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