American Christians crack me up.
Ask, "Do you know any gays"? Answer, "And I don't want to either".
Ask, "Is gay a choice"? Answer, "Yes".
Ask, "Did you choose"? Answer, "No".
Ask, "Will a gay marriage destroy yours"? Answer, "No, of course not".
Ask, "Why not let them get married"? Answer, "Because it will destroy the institution of marriage".
Ask, "But not yours"? Answer, "Not mine".
Ask, "Where do gays come from"? Answer, "I don't know".
Ask, "Did you know that gays are the children of Christians"? Answer, "No way".
Ask, "What if your son was gay", Answer, "No way, I didn't raise him to be gay".
Ask, "But what if he were"? Answer, "I would have to disown him and that would be his choice".
And the ignorance goes round and round.
To condone gay marriage is to imply that it is not sinful. It is sinful: it breaks commandments:
the fifth: honor thy mother and father (no one introduces their toddler and brags they hope they will be a homosexual when they grow up)
ninth: you shall not bear false witness (homosexuals are not open about who they are and 'many' use deceit to gain partners)
tenth: thou shall not covet...anything that is thy neighbor's (if you are taking a partner from another family, hurting that family)
The commandments were given to help people to live together in peace. Homosexuality going against that many commandments, makes it hard not to have problems with others and society.
Acting on homosexuality is a sin. All of us have temptations we resist, and with the Lord's grace, beat. Homosexuality is a destructive behavior. It hurts families and communities (in general). Homosexuals should be treated the same way a gambler, alcoholic, drug addict, or anyone else that has a behavior they have trouble controlling. You love them, you pray for them and you let them know the choices they make are why their life is the way it is. If they accept the Lord's grace, their life can change (they may still be tempted, but it will not have the same power over them).
You do not pretend that everything is going to be okay, homosexuals are some of the lonliest people there are, once they are used. You do not pretend it is easy to overcome temptation. You do not pretend they are going to stay healthy in their later years. You can continue to pray and hope for them even after they have given up all hope; it will help with the Lord.
When someone does overcome their temptations and move closer to the Lord, they should be celebrated, not condemned.
Acting on homosexuality is a sin. All of us have temptations we resist,
So you're gay. Well, I pity you that you should have all these feelings. You should visit a professional counselor so they can help you to understand that you can get past the indoctrination and live a full and happy life. You have my sympathy.
Suggestion, try to avoid religious nutbags. They will only bring you down. Filling your head with mystical crap that is simply not true. Good Luck. I hope this helped.
I was responding to statements about Christians and the Bible. When it was demonstrated that homosexuality is against the Lord, is sinful behavior, the name calling starts. If you don't want to know about the Bible, don't make false claims and expect them to stand. Don't claim that old ways (that have been improved: marriage) still stand.
You guys remind me of muslim extremists:
Your side:this is the way it is.
others: Excuse me, there are some flaws in your arguements, here, here and here.
Your side:You are just saying that because you are filled with hate, name, name, name.
others: this is not true, can we address this?
Your side: name, name, and more name calling.
Great arguements.