I spotted her doing it out of the corner of my eye it occurred to me that she does this often. I asked her why, she said I put the dishes in the wrong way, all the time ...I asked her what the proper way was she told me not to sweat it, its a guy thing, its not in our DNA apparently as I have unfailing poor spatial perception when it came to organizing dirty dishes in a box . I may report her for making what appears to be a hurtful, stereotypical comment impugning my gender .. I feel emasculated. I feel some inconvenient headaches coming on ..