usmbguest5318
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Given the abundance of sexual harassment news of late, I've found myself wondering just what the hell are these alleged harassers doing. In some instances, we are told the details of what they did. For example, one of the men is alleged to have, while clothed, pressed an erection against the woman who's accused him of making an unwanted advance. That, IMO, clearly crosses the line, at least if it happened in a deliberate manner. In other instances, however, we don't have such details.
That said, what possesses someone, anyone, to construe as a fitting first step doing more than asking someone out, or, as might happen in a social setting such as a bar or party where the object of one's desire is reasonably seen as willfully seeking attention, as it were, inviting them to a more discrete setting, or accepting their similar invitation.
Just what are these people doing and what exactly allows those things to go on?
That said, what possesses someone, anyone, to construe as a fitting first step doing more than asking someone out, or, as might happen in a social setting such as a bar or party where the object of one's desire is reasonably seen as willfully seeking attention, as it were, inviting them to a more discrete setting, or accepting their similar invitation.
Just what are these people doing and what exactly allows those things to go on?
- Are the harassers so bold as to be clear that they will withhold opportunities, or worse, if the other party doesn't oblige them?
- By the same token, are the objects of the harassers' advances so bereft of self-respect, confidence in their own abilities, perhaps instead or also greedy, that they will acquiesce to allowing themselves to be compromised as we've heard described and then say nothing about it to the proper authorities?
- Do the harassers not realize that at some point it will get around in their industry that they are harassers and consequently the best people -- high performing individuals of good ethical character -- will vie for roles offered by people who do not engage in exploitative tactics and/or they will not consent to work with exploitative individuals? And let's be honest; nobody wants to associate with low performing individuals of poor character.