Dick Tuck
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- Aug 29, 2009
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My mother. She was deaf, so didn't have a drivers license. She had her SS number memorized. She lived in a small city her whole life, with good public transportation. Her bank knew her, so didn't hassle her for ID. She was pissed off that she couldn't rent videos after I bought her a VCR, since they required an ID. I had to go and get her the card that allowed her to rent videos. If she had to go to Motor Vehicles, which was the next city over, in an industrial area, which didn't have much in the way of public transportation, she'd have had quite a hassle. She first have to go to NYC to get her birth certificate, have to go to a notary since all she had was utility and tax bills as identification to get the birth certificate, and then have someone drive her to Motor Vehicles to wait a few hours to get a state photo id. I'd have probably have had to made the 4 hour drive, and spend a day or two going through the red tape, since most of these agencies don't have people on hand that know ASL.
IOWs, it would have been an incredible burden in time, energy, and cost, for someone who lived in a precinct where she knew or was known by most of the poll workers. Lucky she voted in every election until she passed on at the age of 87.
That is great and all, but who's fault is that? It is hers for being lazy and not getting an ID. I have to get to the DMV and gather all my records also to deal with my life, and make sure i have proper ID. She is your mom, why don't you give her a ride or help her? What happens when the people at her bank retire? Does she just say the hell with her money? How do the people at the voting place now she is who she is?
Yeah, life is fucking tough, and some things suck. I don't want to be bothered with going to the DMV and getting my ID. Do you know how many hours of my life i have wasted in that place? But i want a job, and i want to drive, and i want to be able to buy alcohol without hoping the guy who knows who I am doesn't retire or get fired. Tell your mom it is just something she needs to do if she wants to vote. I am quite sure, from your own story, the woman has dealt with much harder things. Seriously, how hard is it to get to a notary? Look, it is the bank, many of them have notaries and they are all over the place. Oh look, town hall, they might have a notary in there. Oh look lawyer's offices, I bet they might have a notary or would know where one close by is.
Seriously, tell your mom to grow up a little. It just is not that hard.
I couldnt agree more.....I approve this message
Yeah, the elderly and disabled who probably voted all their lives now have to jump through hoops. I'll tell you man, once my mother hit her 80s, it was tough enough to walk two blocks to go food shopping. Damn you're a solipsistic asshole.