I thought you can't Chose to be Gay?...

[koshergrl]

"Do I think I was born this way? No. And that's probably confusing to some, because I know a lot of people believe that you are…Discovering I'm gay just sort of happened much later in life…"

AfterEllen.com - Don't Quote Me: Choosing to be Gay

"
Even Kinsey, the much misunderstood and misquoted sex researcher, rejected the concept of an innate sexual orientation, preferring to categorize people based on their sexual behaviors.
Kinsey never argued that heterosexuals and homosexuals were two separate innate sexual orientations. Like Freud, he believed that all human beings were potentially bisexual. "
Choosing the Gay Option | Viewpoint | Memphis Flyer

 

[mal]

"Do I think I was born this way? No. And that's probably confusing to some, because I know a lot of people believe that you are…Discovering I'm gay just sort of happened much later in life…"

AfterEllen.com - Don't Quote Me: Choosing to be Gay

"
Even Kinsey, the much misunderstood and misquoted sex researcher, rejected the concept of an innate sexual orientation, preferring to categorize people based on their sexual behaviors.
Kinsey never argued that heterosexuals and homosexuals were two separate innate sexual orientations. Like Freud, he believed that all human beings were potentially bisexual. "
Choosing the Gay Option | Viewpoint | Memphis Flyer

Damn... That's gotta hurt.



peace...

 

[Synthaholic]

I don't see an issue. She is a bi-sexual who chose one side over the other. She used to be with a man, and now she chooses only women.

And btw, Mal - please choose to use a spell-checker. Especially in your thread titles. You already have a reputation for low intelligence. No need to re-enforce it with carelessness.

^Obessing on a Typo in a Thread Title...

All that Love... All over an Observation of someone's Feelings about what they are.



peace...

It's just that you do it all the time. That indicates poor spelling skills, not occasional typos.

 

[mal]

I don't see an issue. She is a bi-sexual who chose one side over the other. She used to be with a man, and now she chooses only women.

And btw, Mal - please choose to use a spell-checker. Especially in your thread titles. You already have a reputation for low intelligence. No need to re-enforce it with carelessness.

^Obessing on a Typo in a Thread Title...

All that Love... All over an Observation of someone's Feelings about what they are.



peace...

It's just that you do it all the time. That indicates poor spelling skills, not occasional typos.

Hey, that's Great!...



peace...

 

[del]

Not like I Expected Honesty from you, del...

Observing Cynthia's Perspective did not bring a bunch of Love to this Thread...

Fact.

Have a good day.



peace...

nobody really gave a fuck about cynthia's perspective, let alone hated it.



try again, failboi

 

[koshergrl]

Tell us why you're gay, del?

 

[del]

Tell us why you're gay, del?

i'm not gay. one of my kids is.

that's how god made her.

 

[ABikerSailor]

What I learned from Bod in another thread...

Gayness is hardwired.

People who choose gayness are either rapists or rape victims, because it just never happens otherwise. They aren't really "gay" they're just on a power trip. Or being victimized by someone on a power trip.

I feel honored that she shared that insight with me, now I know all about the causes of homosexuality.

Really? Because I was sexually abused from around age 6 until around age 10 by some relatives. I've also been to jail before (never saw gay behavior there) as well as spent 20 years in the military (6 month deployments away from women during the 80's) and never saw any gay behavior on the ships, even though I knew some crewmembers who were gay.

So your theory is total crap koshertwit.

Why not try some actual science for once?

What makes people gay? Biologists may never get a complete answer to that question, but researchers in Sweden have found one more sign that the answer lies in the structure of the brain.

Scientists at the Karolinska Institute studied brain scans of 90 gay and straight men and women, and found that the size of the two symmetrical halves of the brains of gay men more closely resembled those of straight women than they did straight men. In heterosexual women, the two halves of the brain are more or less the same size. In heterosexual men, the right hemisphere is slightly larger. Scans of the brains of gay men in the study, however, showed that their hemispheres were relatively symmetrical, like those of straight women, while the brains of homosexual women were asymmetrical like those of straight men. The number of nerves connecting the two sides of the brains of gay men were also more like the number in heterosexual women than in straight men.

Just what these brain differences mean is still not clear. Ever since 1991, when Simon LeVay first documented differences in the hypothalamus of gay and straight men, researchers have been struggling to understand what causes these differences to occur. Until now, the brain regions that scientists have come to believe play a role in sexual orientation have been related to either reproduction or sexuality. The Swedish study, however, is the first to find differences in parts of the brain not normally involved in reproduction — the denser network of nerve connections, for example, was found in the amygdala, known as the emotional center of the brain. "The big question has always been, if the brains of gay men are different, or feminized, as earlier research suggests," says Dr. Eric Vilain, professor of human genetics at University of California Los Angeles, "then is it just limited to sexual preference or are there other regions that are gender atypical in gay males? For the first time, in this study it looks like there are regions of the brain not directly involved in sexuality that seem to be feminized in gay males."


Read more: What the Gay Brain Looks Like - TIME

It's more to do with the way the actual structure of the brain is built.

 

[mal]

Not like I Expected Honesty from you, del...

Observing Cynthia's Perspective did not bring a bunch of Love to this Thread...

Fact.

Have a good day.



peace...

nobody really gave a fuck about cynthia's perspective, let alone hated it.



try again, failboi

Getting Cranky?...



peace...

 

[del]

Not like I Expected Honesty from you, del...

Observing Cynthia's Perspective did not bring a bunch of Love to this Thread...

Fact.

Have a good day.



peace...

nobody really gave a fuck about cynthia's perspective, let alone hated it.



try again, failboi

Getting Cranky?...



peace...

not even close, mulletman, not even close

you're funny, like a clown

you amuse me

 

[mal]

Tell us why you're gay, del?

i'm not gay. one of my kids is.

That explains your Touchiness on the Issue...

I will take that into Consideration in the Future, but Understand that I don't Hate Gay People...

I Hate the Rabid Gaywingers who push the Agenda.

Pro-Civil Union and don't want them Persecuted.

But me and the President agree... Marriage is between One Man and One Woman.

That and keeping the Sexuality out of at least Elementary Level Schooling...

It should be something Consenting Adults are dealing with, not even High Schoolers on the Public Dime.

Anyway...



peace...

 

[del]

Tell us why you're gay, del?

i'm not gay. one of my kids is.

That explains your Touchiness on the Issue...

I will take that into Consideration in the Future, but Understand that I don't Hate Gay People...

I Hate the Rabid Gaywingers who push the Agenda.

Pro-Civil Union and don't want them Persecuted.

But me and the President agree... Marriage is between One Man and One Woman.

That and keeping the Sexuality out of at least Elementary Level Schooling...

It should be something Consenting Adults are dealing with, not even High Schoolers on the Public Dime.

Anyway...



peace...

if i had no kids, i'd feel exactly the same way.

you should keep in mind that your opinion, as always, doesn't mean shit.

your feelings are a close second.

 

[koshergrl]

Well that swings both ways.

As so many things do.

 

[del]

Well that swings both ways.

As so many things do.

have another drink

 

[xotoxi]

i'm not gay. one of my kids is.

That explains your Touchiness on the Issue...

But it doesn't explain your touchiness on the issue.

 

[koshergrl]

No drinks on my end.

I'm not so sure about your end, del.

 

[CaughtInTheMid]

i think some people are born gay and some choose to be gay (or bi-sexual). but that's just my opinion.

 

[del]

No drinks on my end.

I'm not so sure about your end, del.

you mean you post this shit sober?



dayum

 

[koshergrl]

That's why you have to resort to such silliness....your befuddled mind cannot effectively counter.

 

[del]

That's why you have to resort to such silliness....your befuddled mind cannot effectively counter.

i generally don't bother to attempt to *counter* the delusional, but you can feel free to tell yourself you won something.