anotherlife
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I have spent time with a brutalized girl and learnt interesting things, maybe worth to share, for your thoughts.
Also, I could say that this works on children and men the same way, so not even gender specific.
Okay, so this is how it comes out. Looks like women's / people's minds are self contained in such a way, that the mind executes correlated reactions to largely uncorrelated environmental impacts. For example if someone threatens you, you respond based on what you would do if you weren't threatened.
But battered people don't build this correlation, because of the loss of their mental capacity. So, when battered, you will respond to the threat as per the threat itself, totally forgetting about yourself.
The result is, that you exist in as many versions as the number of threats you get, and your versions don't know about each other. This explains also, why every battered woman / child / man craves to go back for more beat downs.
As a conclusion to my finding, I would like to ask for your opinions, and in addition, whether it is more humane to euthanize battered people than subsidizing their little personal hells?
Also, I could say that this works on children and men the same way, so not even gender specific.
Okay, so this is how it comes out. Looks like women's / people's minds are self contained in such a way, that the mind executes correlated reactions to largely uncorrelated environmental impacts. For example if someone threatens you, you respond based on what you would do if you weren't threatened.
But battered people don't build this correlation, because of the loss of their mental capacity. So, when battered, you will respond to the threat as per the threat itself, totally forgetting about yourself.
The result is, that you exist in as many versions as the number of threats you get, and your versions don't know about each other. This explains also, why every battered woman / child / man craves to go back for more beat downs.
As a conclusion to my finding, I would like to ask for your opinions, and in addition, whether it is more humane to euthanize battered people than subsidizing their little personal hells?