I'm just thinking about the Dalai Lama. One would think he would hate Mao Tse Tung, after all Mao ordered the Tibetan Holocaust.
I wonder if baked cod with mustard sauce would make him cry?
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I'm just thinking about the Dalai Lama. One would think he would hate Mao Tse Tung, after all Mao ordered the Tibetan Holocaust.
is holding a grudge and thinking you're right. From Don't Bite the Hook by Pema Chodron.
Pema Chodron says that's what the Dalai Lama thinks.
I reaize it means I'm in deep trouble.
Hatred is allowing someone else to control your life and giving your freedom to another person. The grudge is irrelevant, so is you being right or wrong. Set yourself free and deny that person the right to control you and you will be free, sleep batter, and just might make their life more miserable because they still hate you.
Karma works both ways after all.
I'm just thinking about the Dalai Lama. One would think he would hate Mao Tse Tung, after all Mao ordered the Tibetan Holocaust.
I wonder if baked cod with mustard sauce would make him cry?
hate, hatred, vials of hate, disaffection, disfavor; alienation, estrangement, coolness; enmity; animosity., umbrage, pique, grudge; dudgeon, ...I'll be honest. I have some of these kinds of grudges. I want to overcome them.
I'm studying Pema Chodron CD called Don't Bite the Hook.
The whole point is to catch yourself when you're hating and then not feed it.
I tried to clear up a grudge with another poster today and it didn't work, BTW.
You mean I have to love all those people I hate?
You mean I have to love all those people I hate?
Yes. You'd be surprised how much brighter life is when you don't hate them
But then, maybe you are a Sith and will lose your power if you let go of the hatred.
You mean I have to love all those people I hate?
You know Sky, I learned something about that myself this past week and this weekend.........
I'd met someone who claimed to be a US Navy Sailor. His name is Keaka (but he goes by the name of Bubba).
He ripped me off of 150 bucks, and considering that I live on 700, that's a pretty hard hit to take this month.
I put his name out among my friends, and told them that I would kick the living shit outta him if he even thought of crossing my line of sight, because that's really fucked up to do to someone, especially when you know their situation (I'm poor).
Interestingly enough, there was a guy at the beginning of the week that tried to run me off the road while I was riding my bicycle.
Saturday morning, I went out to do my 5 mile morning loop, and halfway through my ride, the bolt on my seatpost broke and the saddle left the bike. I rode back, found all the pieces and figured out that all I needed was an allen bolt. Went to the bike shop and they gave me one for free as an extra part.
What was the end result of said bad thing that I could have hated? I found a better position for my saddle that allows me to go faster. I'm grateful for the experience, because it taught me patience and self reliance.
That afternoon? I went out again for my 5 mile loop, and the same dude that tried to run me over beeped his horn and asked me to go over to him.
He then apologized for what he'd done, explained that he'd had a bad day and took it out on me because it was handy. Incidentally, when he did it, I was lucky because I caught him at a stoplight and banged on his window and told him about it. He said I was right to chase him down and he thanked me for helping him to get some perspective.
If I'd stayed pissed at him, I would have never been able to receive his apology. Hate will make you miss out on a lot.
As far as the fucker that ripped me off? I told several people that his ass is mine if I see him. My roomie told me that vengence belongs to God alone, and before I beat his ass, I had to listen to what he has to say.
So no, I can't hate him either. Maybe there's an explaination, but I doubt it.
No. Hate is a wasted emotion.
is holding a grudge and thinking you're right. From Don't Bite the Hook by Pema Chodron.
Pema Chodron says that's what the Dalai Lama thinks.
I reaize it means I'm in deep trouble.
is holding a grudge and thinking you're right. From Don't Bite the Hook by Pema Chodron.
Pema Chodron says that's what the Dalai Lama thinks.
I reaize it means I'm in deep trouble.
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