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- #81
Trust me i understand what you are saying. I just like the idea of giving as good as you get/want.
It's a nice idea, but it's also one of the things that I think causes a lot of our issues in modern relationships. We have come to a point where we expect that "Equal" and "Same" actually have identical meanings, when they don't. We have lost the vision that two quarters have an equal value to five dimes without being the same coins. Men and women were never intended to be the SAME. We have always been intended to be Yin and Yang, Heads and Tails.... two separate and different halves that combine to form one complete entity.
I agree, men and women don't view sex the same way. Women are not as visual as men are in regard to sex. Some men view the saving ritual for women as part of foreplay. I don't see how it really matters to a woman if a man's privates are clean shaven or not,other than as some form of payback.
Most women view sex emotionally and just need to feel close to their partner,which is why they don't always need to make love,but are just as happy with cuddling sometimes.