5stringJeff
Senior Member
Merlin1047 said:I was going to leave this topic alone, but I was never long on common sense. So at the risk of upsetting both you and Joz, I'm going to try to tiptoe through the minefield.
If I post sumthin that's shot thru with bad grammer, bad spelinnk, and dam crude langwige, you would probably assume that either I'm an illiterate halfwit at worst or an extremely poor typist at best. Either way, your impression of me is based on my public persona.
Likewise, the way people dress and act in public sends a signal about the type of person they are and the type of behavior in which they engage. Now I'm not saying that's RIGHT, I'm just saying that's a FACT of the human condition. We form first impressions based on visual assessment and how we process that assessment into our own personal frames of reference.
There are two ways a woman can get my attention. One way is to give me whiplash when I snap my head around fast enough to get a good look. Cleavage, short tight skirt, skimpy shorts, teeny bikini all work. Yes, that may be chauvinistic, but I will not attempt to reverse millenia of male propensities all by myself. I have neither the will nor the inclination to even make the attempt. So ladies, if you don't want to see me drool, keep your boobies covered.
The second way a woman gets my attention is to sit down and talk to her. If we can keep an interesting conversation going, if she is her own person, if she has her own perspectives and opinions, then she becomes far more beautiful to me than the honey parading down the center aisle of the local mall with her shorts riding into the crack of her butt.
Frankly, women who feel the need to put themselves on display tend to make me uncomfortable. I have no rational explantion for that, so don't even ask.
Merlin, you have written what I was trying to say all along.