So, my fellow females, let me outline a scenario and get your input. Scenario. A female with a person of significance who is, for the sake of argument, somewhere dangerous..... Let's say Afghanistan..... and it's Valentine's Day.... and you get an email.... and that email has you tube links to a variety of icky soppy love songs, with a note that says 'this is the cyber equivalent of a mixed tape I made for you' and swearing undying love. Do you: a. Think 'Ahhhh, that's so adorable' and email back saying how touched you are by that person's thoughtfulness. b. Email back saying 'where the hell is my chocolate, champagne and flowers, you cheap bastard?' Thanks.