Well, not all of you, but most of you. I've been hanging out in political forums for about a decade now, and as times change and we move from controversy to controversy I notice one constant. Grown ass people can't have disagreements in a grown up way. You see it here; you see it everywhere. Name calling, unfair assumptions and accusations, etc.
What exactly are you trying to achieve? Are you here to just shit on the floor, or are you here in hopes that some part of what you say might get through and impact another person? I know it's the latter for me, and I know that if I ever hope to achieve that I'll need to start by not acting like an ignorant asshole when I'm talking about my point of view. The moment you get hostile and shitty with people you ensure two things. One, they're now closed off to anything you might have been able to teach them, and two, you have closed yourself off to anything they might have been able to teach you.
I’m here to have some fun, read the opinions of others, and share a few of my own. Basic entertainment. I lurked for many months before joining USMB so I knew there are lots of angry, illogical, sometimes sick, people here. But one can have no real idea how bad it is until one is a member.
Sadly, there are many people whose posts amount only to personal and partisan attacks, there is no reasonable position, at all, put forth. They’re just hit and run insults. These are the people I quickly put on Ignore because they have nothing of value to share, imo.
And, there seems to be little real debate that takes place here, mostly it’s just insults tossed around like electronic molotov cocktails. I, and others, have been insulted because we use the Ignore feature to clean up the board. The insulters, in their twisted little minds, seem to think there is some valorous reason for members not to use Ignore feature, and instead, to just tolerate their assinine bullshit. I disagree. I’m here to have some fun, not to listen to five year-olds endlessly scream at each other.
The giveaway, often, is in the way their posts begin. You can expect a steaming pile of shit when the first words are something like:
All blacks are....
or, All hair-brained liberals want to control....
or, Right wingers are all Toe-Tapping faggots....
or, (in my own case) starting posts with: the Orange Doosh/Maggot/Draft-Dodger, etc.
Well, you get the idea. The forum can instantly be made better by placing most of these folks immediately on Ignore, imo.
To be honest, I’ve been guilty on too many occasions of engaging in the same stupid shit. I want to do better, and I will do better. But I suppose it’s human nature to counter-attack anyone who insults you. And. because I deeply love this country, and I think donald trump is a horrible president, I engage in a lot of stupid insults, too. Maybe it’s the bigger and better man who can calmly walk away, leaving the insulting knuckle-dragger to sink more deeply into his own stinking pile of diarrhea.
Thank you, Confounding, for a thoughtful and needed thread. One that should get all of us thinking about our own online behavior. With this thread, you’ve achieved your stated goal of getting through to, and impacting, another person. That person is, me.
I hope there are others who have been 'impacted', as well.