Why Women Need Husbands

[Luissa]

The level of sheer ignorance and stupidity in this post is unbelievable.

Shhhh Vox is a doctor.

Honorary doctorate from Glen Beck University?

Something like that.

 

[Indofred]

Marriage is needed so the woman can be assured of care and comfort as she needs it; especially when pregnant or looking after small children.
I see it as my duty to do the best I can for my wife and child.
In return; she looks after me; cooking when I get home from work and making sure the servants keep the place clean and do the ironing so I have a fresh shirt every day.

I believe marriage is the only way to go when it comes to a serious relationship and marriage should not be watered down in any way with all this PC crap we see.

It's there to provide a secure environment for all concerned.

Of course, there are problems with some partners in marriage, abusive husbands or really crap wives, nothing is perfect but marriage does a lot to keep things in order.

I got as red for that and from a woman, no less?
It must have been an extremist feminist lesbian.

 

[BDBoop]

Marriage is needed so the woman can be assured of care and comfort as she needs it; especially when pregnant or looking after small children.
I see it as my duty to do the best I can for my wife and child.
In return; she looks after me; cooking when I get home from work and making sure the servants keep the place clean and do the ironing so I have a fresh shirt every day.

I believe marriage is the only way to go when it comes to a serious relationship and marriage should not be watered down in any way with all this PC crap we see.

It's there to provide a secure environment for all concerned.

Of course, there are problems with some partners in marriage, abusive husbands or really crap wives, nothing is perfect but marriage does a lot to keep things in order.

I got as red for that and from a woman, no less?
It must have been an extremist feminist lesbian.

Oh, DO stop whinging.

 

[Uncensored2008]

Is it so abhorrent a notion that women need men just as men need women (in the normal course of things), or that a wife needs her husband and a husband needs his wife?

Radical feminism, as an adjunct of the left, seeks to destroy the family as a means of concentrating power in the central authority.A dolt like Luissa cannot grasp concepts, well any concepts, but particularly those which involve mechanisms below the surface. The destruction of the American family was vital to the establishment of the authoritarian state. The annihilation of the familial bonds is needed to complete the creation of a totalitarian state.

 

[Uncensored2008]

I know! I was thinking that several hours ago.

I know!

All those men out there who choose to get pregnant and have a child without the support structure of a spouse.

All those men who see welfare as a the path to independence and know that having a child as a single father will get them SNAP and food stamps and section 8 housing and mediCAL and WIC....

Two of my best friends are single. One never married, one was married and it sucked. The three of us are agreed that being single is wonderful. We can list the reasons why.

SNAP and food stamps and section 8 housing and mediCAL and WIC....

The 'payoff' of being married ... well, let's just say some women think the price is too high.

And **** the impact on the child....

 

[Vox]

for the ignorant liars out there - only China, Vietnam and North Korea allow legal third trimester abortions on demand.

Stellar company the US is with

The level of sheer ignorance and stupidity in this post is unbelievable.

pronounced ignorant derideo looking in the mirror

 

[Vox]

Is it so abhorrent a notion that women need men just as men need women (in the normal course of things), or that a wife needs her husband and a husband needs his wife?

Radical feminism, as an adjunct of the left, seeks to destroy the family as a means of concentrating power in the central authority.A dolt like Luissa cannot grasp concepts, well any concepts, but particularly those which involve mechanisms below the surface. The destruction of the American family was vital to the establishment of the authoritarian state. The annihilation of the familial bonds is needed to complete the creation of a totalitarian state.

yep, that is exactly right. The rabid American feminism is about making women labor slaves, therefore the brainwash about "empowering" through abortion up to the fourth trimester
and implanting the thought that men are the enemy and the best life for a woman is without men
That is the enjoyable life which ensues makes all the feminists so angry and hateful, obviously - as is demonstrable at any thread ( here and elsewhere) - those the most filled with hatred are ALWAYS the rabid leftard abortionists

 

[ClosedCaption]

I would address your posts point-by-point, but my brain won't stop swearing in tongues. The only identifiable phrase I can pick out is "Know how I know you're a dick?"

When my daughter was young, she wanted a dad. I explained life a bit, and concluded by informing her that me getting married wouldn't guarantee her a good dad any more than it would guarantee me a good husband.

Staying single is what some of us did on the best interest of our child. My stepfather adopted me in fifth grade and adopted me in sixth. They married when I was four, had been together since I was three so yes: I believed him when he explained that this is how young women learned about sex.

Now, I may not represent the norm. But it is my truth. And I did go on to marry a dear friend that I was co-workers with for the better part of a decade. Not for economic reasons, because I knew how to live within my means. No, I married for love.

This thread - it is just crazy to me. Women are supposed to need a man in their life? And then what. Go mildly depressed until she finds her "other half?"

What a load of tosh.

That's great and all that but you just called me a dick, told me that everyone is not the same, then asked a finishing question that no one suggested just to be offended by it.

I didn't say women are "supposed to need a man". I said "women need men" its a simple truth. They will not die without one but they will are so much happier with one.

If you want to call it depression, I wouldn't but I wouldn't say they are happy to be alone either. Again whatever label you want to slap on that feel free just don't mis label it.

 

[ClosedCaption]

This is going off the rails.

No one is saying anything negative about women needing men. Its just the truth. You have to go to great lengths to find a way to be offended instead of finding fault with the message.

Heres the thing. Women find solace in "typical" advice. So they will pay attention to their girlfriends advice or a dude who talks like a woman. This advice is typical and its nothing new.

That's why its so comforting. Its the same old shit.

 

[Indofred]

In my experience, a man can remain single for a long time and it not really bother him too much as long as he's having fun and getting his oats.
This applied to me for a very long time.
However, nature gives us urges far stronger than just the need for sex and that, sooner or later, manifests itself in the form of a woman we must marry to keep our sanity. Powerful thing is love.

Women tend to have greater needs in that department than men do. I'm guessing their biological clock ticks a lot louder than ours so they tend to want to marry earlier than men.

I have met many older but still single women, most were lesbians, very ugly or total bitches (English use of the word, meaning, a really unpleasant woman).

When wandering around Chinatown in London, you hit the edges of Soho, a really nasty place where there are many older, unmarried women; usually drug addicts on the game.
The ones I saw, I would be less than interested in.
The worst was still in Chinatown, a really old, fat white woman, dressed in leather bondage gear, trying to get me to enter a brothel.
That deeply unpleasant picture could have turned me gay.

Still, cheap (or maybe expensive, I didn't enquire as to cost) tarts and nasty women apart, I believe most women want and need a husband.
Apart from biological needs, the traditional family unit does a lot to secure a stable environment for a lady that wishes to have children and is beneficial to the kids as they are far more likely to grow up well balanced, in a good home.

A woman gives up a lot when she marries and has children so, in turn, we men must do whatever we can to support our families.

Women don't need a husband; they need a good husband.

 

[Derideo_Te]

Is it so abhorrent a notion that women need men just as men need women (in the normal course of things), or that a wife needs her husband and a husband needs his wife?

Radical feminism, as an adjunct of the left, seeks to destroy the family as a means of concentrating power in the central authority.A dolt like Luissa cannot grasp concepts, well any concepts, but particularly those which involve mechanisms below the surface. The destruction of the American family was vital to the establishment of the authoritarian state. The annihilation of the familial bonds is needed to complete the creation of a totalitarian state.

Blaming the victims of the corporate greed that is responsible for the "annihilation of the familial bonds" is just another aspect of the GOP mindset.

 

[Uncensored2008]

Blaming the victims of the corporate greed that is responsible for the "annihilation of the familial bonds" is just another aspect of the GOP mindset.

So, "corporate greed" is the root of the concept that a family is comprised of a mommy, a baby, and a social worker?

Just amazing the idiocy you leftists throw out, when a sheet of talking points isn't readily availible....

 

[Derideo_Te]

Blaming the victims of the corporate greed that is responsible for the "annihilation of the familial bonds" is just another aspect of the GOP mindset.

So, "corporate greed" is the root of the concept that a family is comprised of a mommy, a baby, and a social worker?

Just amazing the idiocy you leftists throw out, when a sheet of talking points isn't readily availible....

Corporate greed resulted in the outsourcing of jobs with benefits forcing women to go out and get jobs just to make ends meet. Financial issues are the #1 cause of divorce. Your appalling ignorance of these facts explains why you disingenously blame the victims for the destruction of the "familial bonds" and applaud corporate greed.

 

[BDBoop]

I would address your posts point-by-point, but my brain won't stop swearing in tongues. The only identifiable phrase I can pick out is "Know how I know you're a dick?"

When my daughter was young, she wanted a dad. I explained life a bit, and concluded by informing her that me getting married wouldn't guarantee her a good dad any more than it would guarantee me a good husband.

Staying single is what some of us did on the best interest of our child. My stepfather adopted me in fifth grade and adopted me in sixth. They married when I was four, had been together since I was three so yes: I believed him when he explained that this is how young women learned about sex.

Now, I may not represent the norm. But it is my truth. And I did go on to marry a dear friend that I was co-workers with for the better part of a decade. Not for economic reasons, because I knew how to live within my means. No, I married for love.

This thread - it is just crazy to me. Women are supposed to need a man in their life? And then what. Go mildly depressed until she finds her "other half?"

What a load of tosh.

That's great and all that but you just called me a dick, told me that everyone is not the same, then asked a finishing question that no one suggested just to be offended by it.

I didn't say women are "supposed to need a man". I said "women need men" its a simple truth. They will not die without one but they will are so much happier with one.

If you want to call it depression, I wouldn't but I wouldn't say they are happy to be alone either. Again whatever label you want to slap on that feel free just don't mis label it.

Bullshit.

Oh look - more bullshit.

And yet more bullshit.

Why? Because you have yet to apply the same standard to men.

 

[BDBoop]

This is going off the rails.

No one is saying anything negative about women needing men. Its just the truth. You have to go to great lengths to find a way to be offended instead of finding fault with the message.

Heres the thing. Women find solace in "typical" advice. So they will pay attention to their girlfriends advice or a dude who talks like a woman. This advice is typical and its nothing new.

That's why its so comforting. Its the same old shit.

And all I can wonder now is - who was she. I can see how badly she burned you. I would love to know the specifics.

 

[BDBoop]

Thanks, Fred. I just woke up, haven't had breakfast - so when your post nauseated me, I was safe.

I really should quote it for posterity's sake, but then I'd have to fumigate the desktop.

 

[Gracie]

In my experience, a man can remain single for a long time and it not really bother him too much as long as he's having fun and getting his oats.
This applied to me for a very long time.
However, nature gives us urges far stronger than just the need for sex and that, sooner or later, manifests itself in the form of a woman we must marry to keep our sanity. Powerful thing is love.

Women tend to have greater needs in that department than men do. I'm guessing their biological clock ticks a lot louder than ours so they tend to want to marry earlier than men.

I have met many older but still single women, most were lesbians, very ugly or total bitches (English use of the word, meaning, a really unpleasant woman).

When wandering around Chinatown in London, you hit the edges of Soho, a really nasty place where there are many older, unmarried women; usually drug addicts on the game.
The ones I saw, I would be less than interested in.
The worst was still in Chinatown, a really old, fat white woman, dressed in leather bondage gear, trying to get me to enter a brothel.
That deeply unpleasant picture could have turned me gay.

Still, cheap (or maybe expensive, I didn't enquire as to cost) tarts and nasty women apart, I believe most women want and need a husband.
Apart from biological needs, the traditional family unit does a lot to secure a stable environment for a lady that wishes to have children and is beneficial to the kids as they are far more likely to grow up well balanced, in a good home.

A woman gives up a lot when she marries and has children so, in turn, we men must do whatever we can to support our families.

Women don't need a husband; they need a good husband.

Digging furiously in my purse, looking for my super duper eye roll smiley.

 

[Vox]

In my experience, a man can remain single for a long time and it not really bother him too much as long as he's having fun and getting his oats.
This applied to me for a very long time.
However, nature gives us urges far stronger than just the need for sex and that, sooner or later, manifests itself in the form of a woman we must marry to keep our sanity. Powerful thing is love.

Women tend to have greater needs in that department than men do. I'm guessing their biological clock ticks a lot louder than ours so they tend to want to marry earlier than men.

I have met many older but still single women, most were lesbians, very ugly or total bitches (English use of the word, meaning, a really unpleasant woman).

When wandering around Chinatown in London, you hit the edges of Soho, a really nasty place where there are many older, unmarried women; usually drug addicts on the game.
The ones I saw, I would be less than interested in.
The worst was still in Chinatown, a really old, fat white woman, dressed in leather bondage gear, trying to get me to enter a brothel.
That deeply unpleasant picture could have turned me gay.

Still, cheap (or maybe expensive, I didn't enquire as to cost) tarts and nasty women apart, I believe most women want and need a husband.
Apart from biological needs, the traditional family unit does a lot to secure a stable environment for a lady that wishes to have children and is beneficial to the kids as they are far more likely to grow up well balanced, in a good home.

A woman gives up a lot when she marries and has children so, in turn, we men must do whatever we can to support our families.

Women don't need a husband; they need a good husband.

Digging furiously in my purse, looking for my super duper eye roll smiley.

That is a traditional patriarchal view on the men-women relationships, or, a pendulum were it was before all the liberation started

Now the pendulum is in an opposite extreme position - "who needs the stinky men? certainly not me " where the truth is in the middle - the best option is a loving family, if that happens.
but all other options should not be victimized as there are many roads to happiness.

 

[The Professor]

Women don't need a husband any more than a man needs a wife. Get married because you want to spend your life with that person.

Why are men not encouraged to stay home and to have their wives provide for them?

That first sentence is the only acceptable reason I can see for marriage, other than to start a family and hope the marriage lasts.

These days, many married women are supporting their husbands....

I have tried marriage enough to know it is not in my best interest. I love, love, love, living alone and on my own terms and having that one special friend, who doesn't live in my town.

You're not alone in preferring to live alone. Even many married couples prefer to live apart. Here are a few links on the subject. The last link states that 1.7 million married couples in the USA are living in separate residences and are happier because of it.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/09/15/realestate/living-apart-together.html

Living Apart Together: Separate Spaces Keep These Married Couples Close | AOL Real Estate

Seen At 11: Married, But Living Apart « CBS New York

 

[Ava]

In my experience, a man can remain single for a long time and it not really bother him too much as long as he's having fun and getting his oats.
This applied to me for a very long time.
However, nature gives us urges far stronger than just the need for sex and that, sooner or later, manifests itself in the form of a woman we must marry to keep our sanity. Powerful thing is love.

Women tend to have greater needs in that department than men do. I'm guessing their biological clock ticks a lot louder than ours so they tend to want to marry earlier than men.

I have met many older but still single women, most were lesbians, very ugly or total bitches (English use of the word, meaning, a really unpleasant woman).

When wandering around Chinatown in London, you hit the edges of Soho, a really nasty place where there are many older, unmarried women; usually drug addicts on the game.
The ones I saw, I would be less than interested in.
The worst was still in Chinatown, a really old, fat white woman, dressed in leather bondage gear, trying to get me to enter a brothel.
That deeply unpleasant picture could have turned me gay.

Still, cheap (or maybe expensive, I didn't enquire as to cost) tarts and nasty women apart, I believe most women want and need a husband.
Apart from biological needs, the traditional family unit does a lot to secure a stable environment for a lady that wishes to have children and is beneficial to the kids as they are far more likely to grow up well balanced, in a good home.

A woman gives up a lot when she marries and has children so, in turn, we men must do whatever we can to support our families.

Women don't need a husband; they need a good husband.

Digging furiously in my purse, looking for my super duper eye roll smiley.

That is a traditional patriarchal view on the men-women relationships, or, a pendulum were it was before all the liberation started

Now the pendulum is in an opposite extreme position - "who needs the stinky men? certainly not me " where the truth is in the middle - the best option is a loving family, if that happens.
but all other options should not be victimized as there are many roads to happiness.

Looking back, I only thought I needed a husband. Then another....then another....and I later came to realize I am too much for a husband and happier without one. Living alone keeps me strong and independent. I like that much better than sharing myself.