The history of the West is nothing to brag about but for this point in time in this part of the world, the choice of supporting or opposing a murderous autocrat is clear.
Are you referring to the common peoples mindset - or those of their respective elitist circles aka governments?
There was absolutely no majority amongst the people in any NATO country (aside maybe the agitated American population due to 9/11) to make and bring war and destruction onto Somalia, Serbia, Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria, Libya and now Russia. Plus crippling a dozen and more countries, and especially their population (As such
intentionally worsening the peoples livelihood) with economic sanctions and therefore intentionally raising the chances/desire for internal unrest and revolutions).
NONE of these autocratic or sanctioned countries had attacked any neighbor when they were attacked - aside from some of them facing civil-wars, whereby the opposing parties were initiated, and immediately supported and financed by those democratic countries.
Now tell me, what is it that makes democrats or democratic countries believe that they possess a "higher" moral? Because they allow their sheep's to vote for their respective party every 4 years?
Which does not even guarantee that someones "chosen" party gets to rule the realm - and that one day after the election is over, the respective democratic government via implementing laws and regulations, does what ever it wants without ever asking it's population. And if those democratic sheep's don't follow these laws they get punished via $ and jail-time. Just as in any autocratic country.
Why do you have all these demonstrations (many violent ones) in these democratic countries? Because people have been told that it is okay to demonstrate and use violence against any existing government and their imposition of laws. As such democracy is simply a joke - first the government doesn't care about it's peoples wants - and hence allows people to act against them.
Who are these democrats and their respective democratic governments to tell autocratic governments - you need to be as chaotic and illogical as us,- otherwise we will cause civil unrest in your country and eventually make war on you?
Therefore - it has NEVER been about democracy contra autocracy - but Western elites and $$ circles profiting from the "democratic" system, can't enter autocratic countries, in order to take control of them and therefore further their own personal business agendas. And e.g. Russia simply refuses to be taken over by Western elites and $$ circles. Therefore they will not allow for NATO to take control of Ukraine - and therefore a war such as the Ukraine-Russian war got started.
N-Korea - classic example, ruled by a despotic autocratic leader - do you believe that those sanctions (making the common people there even more poor and desperate) is going to help your democratic agenda? No, actually the N-Korean people detest democracy even more then before and worked even harder to get nukes. The same applies to e.g. Iran - those people who protest do not even represent 20% of the population - whilst the other 80% get to hate democracy and democratic countries even more.
Whilst NATO is doing it's best to support and militarize Monarchist and despotic Islamic autocracies throughout the Gulf States to get into confrontation with Iran - classic democrat warmongers.
Since 5-6 years now NATO aka USA is almost daily inciting hate and lies against China - additionally inciting a present government on Taiwan to opt for independence. Thus trying to provoke China into getting into war with Taiwan and thus NATO. Since China clearly stated that in the event of a deceleration of independence by Taiwan - China will also resort to military means.
And just as Russia will not accept a Ukraine in NATO, China will not accept an independent Taiwan, which would inadvertently become a US military base and NATO or NATO affiliate member, a hundred miles of mainland China's coast.
So if you prefer to support a factually proven, warmongering democratic $$ and elite system - constantly attacking autocratic countries via economic sanctions and by military force, then that is your personal "free" choice.
But the system you support or believe in, is in no way better then an autocratic system - in regards to intentional destruction and imposed sanctions, therefore increasing poverty, its even far worse.